There is a difference betweem two older adults having a relationship where the person have the time and maturity. I find it more disugsting when the boy is just a teen havig his first sexaul experice with a woman who may be old enough to be his mother.
What about men who are old enough to be the father, and grandfather.? Is that okay? I see it everyday,it's all around us. I don't know maybe you being a jw made you numb to some real facts of life on the outside, but, I wasn't caring how old the women were.If she was pretty and sexy I felt I wanted to do it, hell i did it, (at the age of 15yrs). Sometimes the women were 25 sometimes they were younger, ( I also slept with girls my own age) I can tell you the sex felt much better coming from an older women than it did from a girl my own age. Get real this ain't no "leave it to beaver" world. It's been going on for centuries. Only now can younger boys, men or whatever admit they have been having sex with older women. Not forced, willifully
If you know of older women who are "forcing" little kids in to having sex call the police it's rape. I can't speak for other boys my age (during those times) but, I can say when I had sex with older women it was because I wanted it, and if my parents had called the cops I would have denied it to the bone.
There's a saying that a girls become women at 18, while boys become men at 21 . Supposedly girls mature faster than boys. I think it depends on how mature you are in the mind. It has nothing to do with age. I don't believe little 15yr girls look at old men and say " WOW look at those wrinkles in his face, look at how his skin has drop on his body, look at how red his eyes are, i wonder what he looks like without his clothes on? I want to marry him so he can steal all my youth away, I want to get knocked up and be stuck in a marriage with a nasty old man" They go with them because they think they are mature enough to deal with it. Same with boys. They look at all kinds of sexy pictures of Grown women, they not looking at little 12yrs girls. I know I wasn't. We wanted beautiful, sexy, slim, pretty face women in our teen years. I am more mature now only because I am not paying so much attention now to the outside it has nothing to do with my age, and the sex is still good to me from older women.
This thread kind of reminds me of the double standard treatment I saw women go through in the middle East. Men were allowed to go around and have sex with women or at times very young girls, some being raped. (if they were raped the VICTIM was put to death for the sake of family honor) On the other hand women who slept with men or young boys were put to death for being "whores".
Why is it that women want men to be more liberal minded until it comes to sex, and justice.?
Peace James.
About the only thing he did for the child was to pay child support, didn't care about having a relationship with her. Sadie5
I can believe that Sadie, many old men only want the young girls because they are young they are thinking of the sex they can get from them. They figure they can control and mold younger girls. There's a man that lives two doors down from me, he's 50yrs out driving around trying to talk young females in his car. Everytime he brings one around the first and ususally on thing he talks about with them is sex. With so many old men marrying young girls it's no wonder that older women are looking for younger men.
Younger girls are in more danger being with older men than older women are with younger boys. I haven't yet heard of young men being killed because he left his older wife , (not saying it doesn't happen) but I have heard of old men killing young women because they can't accept the younger wife want to move on to men their own age (some times they are not even married to them).
Peace James
Edited by - Monster on 30 September 2002 13:22:55