God Simon, this sure sounds like old times. Brush it off and don't worry what people say. I don't think you are doing any damage to SL. But if you keep listening to people who name call and belittle, you will do damage to yourself.
You do as much as you can, considering you have a job and a family of four. I think the ones throwing around accusations should do as least as much or shut the hell up.
Like I said in another post. If you sit back and watch, you learn who the real trouble makers are.
Shari