I would assume a good soldier is a man that follows orders well and does not question and that is a mentality that will never sit well with me. To kill when ordered to without having the luxury of reason is something I personally could never conscientiously subject myself to.
Actually, Path, that is not 100% accurate. While a good soldier does indeed follow orders, a good soldier also has the right to question and disobey an unlawful order. Yes, it does get to be quite sticky for him, if he so chooses and he had better make real sure he can prove it to be an unlawful order, but it is possible.
A prime example of this would be the My Lai massacre in Vietnam. While it is well known that it did happen, a little known fact is how it ended. An American Huey helicopter saw what was happening and landed between the soldiers and the Vietnamese civilians. The pilot and crew were all lower in rank that even Lt. Calley, but they intervened and put a stop to it, before it got even worse than it was.
In that case, it was obvious those American soldiers were out of control and in the wrong. Not every soldier in the group took part in the killing either and none were court martialed, only Lt. Calley (who was later pardoned).
By and large, though, you are right, a soldier does follow orders. But, to paint a picture of blindly following any and all order to kill with no regard to reason paints a false picture of the soldiers and has contributed to the many myths of the deranged Vietnam veterans over the past 30 odd years. And yes, being a soldier is not something everybody can do. I saw many a gung ho buffed out dude fail to even make it through Basic Training.
I don't mean this as a criticism of you, just as a clarification of a point. I hope it didn't offend you.
Lew W