Sadie,
I have tried some of the insights and I do feel more in touch with things, you know? Like yesterday, I saw a friend in passing that I have been meaning to call for sometime. I felt all morning like I should call her, but I had a ton of housework to do...so, I put it out of my mind. The feeling nagged at me all day, and then last night she called. Weird, huh? I wasn't home, so I don't know why she called but I'll be returning her call in a little bit. It'll be interesting to see what she has to say
Yep, I know what you mean about feeling more in touch. And what a cool coincidence! Now you've got ME curious about what she has to say
Have you guys been applying the insights? How seriously do you take this book? What does Redfield base these insights on?
I've been sort of applying them...mostly I'm just trying to remain aware and figure out how much of it I can accept, what makes sense to me, what works for me, etc. I don't take it seriously in the sense that I'm now a 'follower' LOL coz following is something I don't ever want to do again, but I take it seriously in that I think the insights offer a different perspective into human interaction, one that I find fascinating to explore. As for what Redfield based it on, I've no clue but perhaps others here will.
I've had that feeling of expectation as well and feel pretty cool when I'm aware of coincidences as they are happening especially. I do think that we often can learn from each other and one of the points of the book is that we need to slow down a bit in our daily interactions to take advantage of that learning process. As for the 8th insight (don't feel bad, btw...I have to keep going back to the book and looking them up to keep them straight) it's mainly regarding our addictions to other people...codependency, really. What I got from it was that it's common for us to use other people to fulfill our unmet needs (framework of the book: energy) and therefore we hinder our own growth and cut ourselves off from learning how to be complete in ourselves.
Please understand I am a neophyte with regards to much of this and am not sure how much I'm willing to accept as far as what the book proposes; some of it seems farfetched to me too but otoh I'm content to take what I can use and leave the rest. I can always revisit it later if I choose.
Thanks again for your post; I'm really amazed at the number of responses this thread has gotten and the number of people who are willing to approach things with open minds.
Expat,
Hey, how are ya??
Uh oh..I feel an invisible pink unicorn coming on......
Eh...huh??!
Dana
Ohhhhhhh, I just read the other responses to your post and now I get it. Soooo...that was humor, then?