It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars (continued)

by Simon 2910 Replies latest jw friends

  • Mikejw
    Mikejw

    Imagine how his witness in laws feel? They obviously know at least a little about his infidelities and letters saying his wife wasn’t sexually pleasing him and asking for an open marriage to have sex with prostitutes.

    They must be absolutely disgusted with this slimeball.

    Can they stop the kids going there?

  • Thisismein1972
    Thisismein1972
    Beans on toast, with cheese melted on top.

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  • TonusOH
    TonusOH

    Mikejw: Imagine how his witness in laws feel?

    I figure they feel like anyone else who has had to deal with him. He does not even seem to spare his wife and kids from his narcicissm, gaslighting and bullying. And the more anyone objects to how he treats them, the harsher he becomes.

    As for stopping them from seeing their grandkids, I'm guessing that Dijana has them most of the time and she's probably not on the same page as he is about how they are cared for. What is he going to do? Demand to have them full time? I doubt he wants that, that would mean the kids would no longer be a convenient prop, they would be an actual responsibility.

  • DerekMoors
    DerekMoors
    I don't think anyone was ever truly traumatized by that book. Have people not read traditional fairly stories, like Hansel and Gretel? They are freaky scary.
    Trying to make out you have some kind of PTSD due to it is pure hyperbole.

    The difference is that no one read their children Hansel and Gretel and used it as a threat of what would happen if you dared have a thought different than their religion. Lots of exJWs also talk about how upsetting it was to think that their god was going to destroy their school chums, extended family, etc. The Bible Story Book also was the first to expose children to the idea that it's your fault if you're raped, that your brother might kill you if he's jealous of something you've done, that demons might come down and have sex with you, etc. This was also a book that a lot of parents studied with their kids over and over even as they got older. I think it's shortsighted to brush it off as doing no more harm than scary fairy tales.

  • DerekMoors
    DerekMoors
    The same guy who left them one holiday season to bang hookers in Thailand? The same man who moved an hour away because he didn’t like that our daughter wouldn’t take it up the ass and wouldn’t tolerate him seeing other women?”

    This. More Lloyd hypocrisy. Sure, JWs can get fucked for what they teach their kids and how they treat them but the bottom line is, who is Lloyd to say anything? Get your own house in order before you tell anyone what's going on in theirs.

  • Las Malvinas son Argentinas
    Las Malvinas son Argentinas
    I'm guessing that Dijana has them most of the time and she's probably not on the same page as he is about how they are cared for. What is he going to do?

    Oh, this is Lloyd we're speaking about. If Dijana diverges in any way from Lloyd's prescribed path of reading her parents the riot act, he's going to start giving her endless shit and accuse her of being a JW apologist or what-not. That video might even be one of retaliation/revenge as in "if you continue letting granny see the girls, I'm dragging Jessica onto one of my videos and we're going DEFCON 1 on My Book of Bible Stories."

    This type of petty vindictiveness and small dick energy is a trademark of Jabba the Hutt's. He's the type of ex who thinks he has veto power over her new lover spending any amount of time with the kids until he approves. There's no limit to the damage a non-custodial parent can cause to the co-parenting arrangement should they so desire. That increases tenfold if she has a new guy in her life.

  • Athanasius
    Athanasius

    If those emails of Lloyd sexting and grooming that 14 year old girl are authentic, Dijana should be concerned about the time her daughters spend with him. Lloyd has admitted that he can't control his penis. Who knows what will happen as the girls develop into their teens?

    Dijana would be wise to seek the advice of an attorney and take legal action to prevent Lloyd having unsupervised visits with her daughters.

  • Diogenesister
    Diogenesister

    The difference is that no one read their children Hansel and Gretel and used it as a threat of what would happen if you dared........

    ......[bite your nails, refuse a hair cut, tell lies, suck your thumb, fidget, tease animals, not eat yer tea etc etc] you've clearly not read "Struwwelpeter"πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    I joke. Yes I agree it's the JW parenting that goes with the book, rather than just the stories in the book itself. As you say D it's the terrorizing kids with JW doctrine that does the damage.πŸ‘πŸ»

    Here's a link to struwwelpeter. A very popular book for kids back in the day!

    https://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/original-struwwelpeter-illustrations-childrens-moral-lesson-book

  • Mikejw
    Mikejw
    He's the type of ex who thinks he has veto power over her new lover spending any amount of time with the kids until he approves.

    Has she got a new lover? I hope he is a better father figure for the girls

  • Mikejw
    Mikejw

    Lloyd did not understand the new light at the AGM at all. That’s why he says it’s a nothing burger.

    The new light on unrighteous ones survive Armageddon means there is no fear or religious trauma anymore. This maybe one of the reasons for such a huge change.

    There is no reason to think β€œI hope my unrighteous loved ones die before Armageddon” Br Jackson said β€œwe know you were thinking this” because there will be a resurrection of the unrighteous. Now they are saying it’s not only righteous baptised JWs who will survive the Great War.

    Lloyd still thinks the official doctrine is that only baptised JWs will survive

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