Perhaps the "me" was forsaken because it is but a lie.
What if all that is True is That, which we have come to call God? What if the Source/God/Truth is not the tiny little object that we have created with the mind? What if there IS but the One Consciousness: I Am, from which all phenomena arises and flows back to?
Then, would not the belief in fragmented and individual identities (the tiny "me"), be but an illusion? not true? a lie?
If so, then it would make perfect sense that the "me" (the lie) must be forsaken that the Truth be realized; and Jesus' statement then would be an actual prerequisite to true realized Oneness with what he called Father.
It is said that we will know God, when there is no "we" or "me" to know God.
In other words: it is the belief that we are a separate-entity from the Infinity of God, that blinds and numbs perception to God.
Be still and know...
JamesT