I think he's nice, but stubborn too, SP. But being stubborn because you have facts behind you is different from being stubborn because you "just believe". One is reality-based and the other is valueless.
Oxnard needs to learn the value of not "just believing". There are plenty of resources that people on this board can point him to, if he really wants to learn. I suspect he may be testing the waters here, with people he knows can debate with facts. Otherwise why would he waste his time? Without facts he knows perfectly well he's not going to get to square one with hard-headed ex-JWs, nor will they tolerate his preaching, even though it's a subtle kind of preaching.
AlanF