Hmmmm...
"Arrogant" - Full of or due to unwarranted pride and self-importance; overbearing; haughty...
"Overbearing" - Acting in a dictatorial manner; arrogant; domineering
"Haughty" - Having or showing great pride in oneself and DISDAIN, CONTEMPT or SCORN... for others.
Well! I am sorry you believe me to be those things, dear 6-'O-9. There was a time when I would have thought your perception most disturbing... and would have beaten myself up trying to change it: "Please, oh, please, Six... don't think that about me!" Now... I have no such... ummmm... "care"... for your perception... is false:
1. The ONLY things I take pride in... and I believe it is QUITE "warranted"... (1) is that I was/am a good mother and have raised two GREAT human beings... and (2) that I have done fairly well in school (I LOVE school! Phoey, on the WTBTS for trying to instill a fear of education in us!). My pride in these things is not false or "unwarranted"... because there are tangible RESULTS... evidence: my two great kids... and my grades.
I also have a little bit of feeling of "self-importance" with regard to the first item, being a mom, because I worked HARD at it. Omigod, I worked, worried and sweated... and denied myself for 25 years... to ensure my children had a decent chance. I did not go to school until my youngest had done 2 years of college himself! And my... devotion to raising decent people... has paid off - they are GREAT... they truly are GOOD people. (Okay, I know I most probably shouldn't boast because all I did is what I should have done... been a good mom... but DANG it feels GOOD! My humblest apologies, then!)
2. Perhaps you mistake my CONFIDENCE... and boldness... for dominance, even dictatorial-ness (is that a word?). But I am NOT confident - you have no idea how much "quaking" I do when I come here - LOL! You have NO idea how many times I open and thread and say... "What am I supposed to SAY? I don't know the answer to that!" But then, it is given me, so that I know what I know... and from whom I know it. And that would make it easier for ANYONE to say whatever they have to say, with confidence... including you.
3. As for haughtiness... I think even you know better than that one.
Peace to you, dear, DEAR 6-'O-9. Peace... and have a WONDERFUL weekend!
YOUR servant and a slave of Christ,
SJ