Let's see if I can get all this to make sense for you.
But I do know that it's my money and earning power that makes me attractive.
This is one thing that always gets me laughing. YOU DON'T NEED MONEY TO ATTRACT WOMEN. If you have a load of money, a nice house, a fancy car, none of it's going to do shit for you if you act needy and reliant on women to make you happy. The only thing you're going to attract is gold-diggers, and many beautiful women have been conditioned by nice guys to be gold-diggers by spoiling the shit out of them.
The reason why I called you needy is because you're looking for a marriage mate. First of all, you can't have a long term relationship without a short term one. You can't just look around and pick the girl you want to marry. However, the JWs provide an extremely easy way to find a marriage mate. The qualifications that are instilled into people's brains for a potential marriage mate are "baptized and spiritual". If you qualify, you can get any woman you want in the JW organization.
Here's the downside to it all. The WTS controls people. They're the ones who have implanted the qualifications for a marriage mate in everyone's head. If you end up marrying a JW woman you'll have to realize one thing: she loves the WTS more than she loves you. Period. If you decide to leave the JWs later in life, there is a very good chance she'll leave you.
Here's another very true fact. If you open your eyes and look around, you'll see that there's beautiful women EVERYWHERE!!!! Just pick one, go talk to her, get her number, and set up a date. If you put your mind to it, you can get almost any woman you want. Why marry a JW woman who'll never love you, when you can marry a worldly woman who'll love you because she wants to, not because the WTS wants her to.
Here's my suggestion: Ditch both of them and get a new, attractive worldly girl. You're the only one who can make your own happiness.