(((Frannie))) You are very welcome. One never knows what another human being will do, especially in circumstances such as his. I was married young to a fellow who had issues, compounded by drugs and alcohol. A mistake in judgement that I paid dearly for over a long period of time. I kept hoping he would change. I have first hand experience of life in those days, held at gunpoint all night long--and actually being shot at two times. What was wrong with me, I ask myself? Fact is, I thought that as a JW wife, this was "turning the other cheek"--a sacrifice so that perhaps with my loving concern, he would turn his life around. I was told I didn't have grounds to leave. Police in those days didn't want to get into domestic matters. He didn't get any better with time; in fact, he got crazier and crazier, and I was finally forced to leave him. A year later he killed himself. I was widowed right before our divorce would have been final. I am truly concerned for you and never take any such situations lightly. I realize that you are no longer married, but your concern is obvious. For you to do what you are doing for him is love. But, he is sick and doesn't realize your sacrifice. Be careful.