Gweedo,
You wrote: you seem to be saying that Adam and Eve were doomed to eat from the tree that God told them not to.
They were. It was a set up. It was not a "test." It was actually a demonstration. For any "God" would certainly know the outcome of the events He orchestrated in Eden. Heck, any dope could have guessed how things would turn out.
God told Adam that if he ate some fruit he would die. God then put Adam alone in that garden for how long? Then God gave him a beautiful naked woman as his new best friend, "helper" and lover. Now this gorgeous babe tells Adam she thinks they should eat the forbidden fruit. Besides, she tells him, she's heard that if they do they wont really die at all.
God didn't need to see into the future to figure out what Adam was going to do under those circumstances. Anyone could have guessed who Adam was going to care most about pleasing. After sleeping with squirrels for what some say was quite a few years, what man wouldn't have risked his life to make sure he didn't lose that lady's love and affection? Even if God then "chose not to" look into the future, as JWs say, the God who created man would have had to have had a very poor knowledge of His own creation not to have known that Adam was certainly going to fail that "test."
The only way the story of Adam and Eve makes sense is to understand that God not only knew how things were going to end up in Eden, but that He deliberately set the whole thing up to make a point. What point? This one. If Adam in paradise, without a problem in the world, could not manage to obey one simple command from God, what chance does any human being have of living their entire trouble-plagued life without sinning either in word, thought or deed? No chance at all. That is the lesson that was illustrated in Eden. Human beings have a "sinful" nature. A nature which God gave us.
You wrote: As if they had no freedom to choose not to eat...as if they were created without freedom.
They had freedom. We all do. But how many of us if starving and broke will not steal a loaf of bread to save our lives? I say every one of us will. Does that mean we are not free? No, it just means we are less righteous than God. Looking out for #1 is a part of our nature. God knew that. For He is the one who gave us our instinct for self preservation. He did so because He knew it is a necessary quality for all physical beings to possess. Yet, at the same time, He knew that total selfless love is a much higher quality, a quality which He possesses and which Jesus Christ clearly demonstrated at the cross.
God knew what Adam would do. As I said, He didn't have to look into the future to figure that out. Why? Because God knew Adam was human. And because he was, God knew he would act human by putting #1 first.
Doing so didn't prove Adam was a bad person. It just proved that he was like God made him, by physical necessity. But it also proved that he was undeserving of eternal life. For God always shows total selfless love. But man, by his own created nature, does not. We are not as righteous as God. So we don't deserve to live forever. But, hey, God made us that way! So how can God hold the way He made us against us? He can't and He doesn't. He gladly overlooks our unrighteousness, at least the part of it which is ours by nature. The Bible tells us that He is able to do this because of what Jesus Christ did for us, dying a death He did not deserve to give us eternal life which we do not deserve. Of course, God expects those who have learned and who believe what Christ did for us to show appreciation for this great gift from God.
You wrote: You threw too many terms around like good, and evil ,and freedom, and love without any real definition of what they mean. That made it confusing to me too. They are big words that probably need a little more defining.
I think you are complicating matters. "Good," "evil," "freedom" and "love" are all pretty simple words. Their common definitions will work just fine in this discussion.
You wrote: You drew a real long bow when you tried to tell us God didn't punish adam and eve.
I don't believe He did. He introduced them to the real world. Most of our parents do that to all of us sooner or later. When they do, are they punishing us?