I have to admit, I've been feeling on the same page as Xena. Did I miss something too? I guess my weakness has always to not judge as facts, things which have not been proven. I may watch and question someone if things look fishy, but unless someone knows for sure, I am also surprised at some of the attacks that have been made against him unless those people know by proof he really is indeed not who he says he is.
I personally have a friend who lost about 7 people in death close to her this past year. If someone were to accuse her of telling tales because she had been posting each time a new tragedy hit her and then suddenly people thought she was lying to get symathy, I would have been livid, because I know indeed how bad it has been for her. I recently wrote an old friend from high school (by way of a xmas card) who I had lost touch with for years and her message back to me was a year of tragedy for both her and her husband. Sometimes bad things do happen?? So if aside from the flirtations, Caspians only crime was to talk about bad things that had happened to him, does anyone know they didn't? for sure?
and as far as flirting with women.. I've been on the net a long time and I can't tell you how many players I have met. All women are volnerable and we all need to be smart.. he sure wouldn't be the first one to be flirting.. nor the last..
now.. I say this totally neutral... yes I posted an ahhh.. in the thread about his dad dying I think, and a hang in there on his divorce thread, but I really didn't get to know him, so I am not taking his side or anything..
I just have to wonder if people really know for sure he was fake, or if they put it together by clues?