Dearest Tina and Amazing... may you both have peace!
I would like to comment, if I may:
The common operative word in your respective posts is 'we', which I take you both to mean the human race (sorry to those who dislike that terminology; it was 'handy'). And that right there should kinda answer the question for you, Tina. Those who 'belong' to this system of things... those who consider themselves a part of 'we'... are a law 'unto themselves'. Tim McVeigh, by even having issues with 'we', and by placing himself as judge and avenger over the 'we', has put himself under law to 'we'. Thus, he was judged and condemned... and will die... at the hand of 'we'. 'They' are no better than he... and by his actions, he, no better than 'they'.
There are some, however, who are not a part of the 'we', and no, I am not talking about the WTBTS, for in truth, they constitute themselves a part of 'we' whenever it benefits them. If they NEED something from the 'we', you can bet they will demand it, and even join forces WITH the 'we' in order to obtain it.
I am speaking of those who truly believe my Lord words, 'let the one WITHOUT sin... cast the first stone.' Since I am a sinner and so are my family and friends, and I want to be shown MERCY... for myself and my family... I truly cannot judge and condemn another. If that one ASKS for mercy, I must extend it.
However, IF that one constitutes him or herself as a part of 'we'... if that person shows themself to BE a part of 'we'... and if that person's lack of repentance PROVES that they are not a part of 'us' and therefore a part of 'we'... then I am in my full right not to concern myself with whether such one is judged... and condemned... BY 'we'. Such one becomes 'as the world and a tax collector'.
Do I hate such one? No. Do I judge such one? No. Condemn. Uh-uh. Wish ill-will? Nope. If I see him/her hungry and I have the means, I WILL feed him/her. If I see him/her naked, and I have the means, I WILL clothe him/her. But, as long as he/she is a part of 'we'... I can do nothing to stop 'we'... from carrying out THEIR laws.
This is quite different from the 'no part of this world' that the WTBTS 'sells'. They use such phrase as a means of isolation to their convenience and benefit, turning it on and off as they see fit: 'we're no part of the world, so the world's judgments mean nothing to us', as they seek decisions to their advantage from worldly courts.
When my Lord said that we were 'no part of the world,' he did not say we were to BE no part of the world. He said that the world would HATE us BECAUSE we were no part of it. But Timothy McVeigh, the FBI, the United Nations, the Pope, the Dalai Lama, etc., etc., do not 'hate' me. The ONLY people in THIS world that hate me... are those who still associate with the WTBTS. And they 'hate' me, because I am no part... of them. For they ARE indeed 'fond of their own.'
Tim McVeigh put himself in the hands of those considered 'we', by his acts. He was not wrongly judged and condemned because he committed no sin, nor was he wrongly judged and condemned for the sake of the Christ and giving witness to him and God. The Law Covenant said 'an eye for an eye... a life for a life.' Tim took that Law... into his own hands and avenged a life... for a life. Now, he, too, will face the very Law HE lived by... and pay for it... with his physical life.
As regards his spirit, however, my Father shows mercy... to whomever HE wishes to show mercy. Whether Tim McVeigh is condemned eternally, and receives judgment rather than life at his resurrection, is a decision that belongs to God and has not yet been revealed to us.
I hope this helps and as always, bid you love and peace.
Your servant (your sis, Tina), and a slave of Christ,
SJ