Abaddon,
I think if a Muslim nation was surrounded by Jewish nations, they'd be equally defensive as Israel is in their situation.
I simply disagree. In centuries or millenia past you may have a point but in todays modern world especially post holocaust it would be absurd for Jewish nations to seek the destruction of Islamic nations and their people and is not consistent with modern Israeli philosophy.
Also, where in the definition of 'democracy' or 'friendly' does Israel's behaviour towards the Palestinians fit in?
It fits in the exact same way as ours does toward terrorists. Israel has suffered more acts of terrorism than any other nation on earth. They are attacked EVERYDAY. And if you haven't noticed they are one of the smallest countries on Earth. The land the Jew occupy in Israel is so tiny it is absurd, and shrinking. They do not seek the destruction of the Palestinians, they are forced to live in a police state because their neighboors are in love with the hateful propaganda that is issued to them. Look at the polls that show most people in Saudi Arabia believe the Jews drink the blood of Christians and Muslims at Passover.
If you want to be honest ask yourself this. "Who is more likely to want to live peacefully amonst their neighboors, the Palestinians and other Muslim/Arabs with the Israelis or the Israelis?"
Have the Israelis been attacked out of hatred by foreign neighboors? Do the Israelis go around attacking its neighboors out of hatred?
I agree that the Palestinian issue is a tough one, however to act like the Palestinians are just happless victims rewrites history. Isreal at times causes collateral damage when targeting a terrorist cell, or leader. The Palestinians SEEK collateral damage when they attack Israel in marketplaces and school buses.
To Israel's critics: What would you have Israel do? Do you really think that the Arabs/Muslims will ever be satisfied until Israel and the Jews are destroyed? I don't, unless we do something to stop the hatred that is festered in those countries.