a friend in need,
I"ve read your posts and I am deeply saddened. I remember how I was trained to think just as you do, and how I was taught to scorn the humanitarian efforts of other religious and social aid organizations as unimportant and less valuable that what I was doing as a preacher of the good news.
What finally made me see the error of the society's ways was personal experience about Witness discrimination. Whereas Catholic Services and the Salvation Army (among others) reach out a hand to anyone of any faith (or no faith) in need, the Witnesses seemed to have a hard time taking care of those they have been taught ARE their responsibility -- the brothers and sisters.
When I was new to my last congregation and laid up flat on my back, I got assistance from the "friends" -- meals for a week, house cleaning assistance, and calls and cards. Several years later when I had back surgery which meant SIX WEEKS (vs. two) of recuperation, I got a couple of personal visits, 1 plant, NO offers of housecleaning, NO offers of meals to be cooked for my family, and NO offer of hooking me up to meetings I would miss! Only my dearest friend from the congregation visited and called regularly -- but this was something that was our habit before the surgery. What was the difference? I was still Sister Always Prepared, I still was putting in my 10 hours of field service per week, I was still invited to congregation gatherings at that point. I can only guess that the difference was that I was no longer "new" and thus did not have to be impressed by the goodness of my fellow congregants.
Later, I experienced the lack of love in regards to another sister. Her husband, a brother, had slipped into alcoholism. As a result, he had left her, leaving her destitute. She didn't even want a separation, but he was so ashamed he had lost his job, and was not being faithful to Jehovah, that he disappeared from her life. What did the congregation do to help her? You guessed it! -- NOTHING. No money, no offers of employment, no offer of lodging, etc., etc. At least not through the elder body. Because this sister's HUSBAND was a jerk, she apparently wasn't worthy of assistance. Even though she was one of the most beautifully spiritual people I had ever met!!! Why do I know so much about this? Because my dearest friend (mentioned above) and I learned of her circumstances and bought groceries for her and offered her a place to live. She was overwhelmed! Me, I was overwhelmed, too, with disgust at the lack of love on the part of others in the congregation who had known her since she was a young girl.
There is NO SPIRITUAL SUBSTITUTE for human kindness in the form of material help. As has been amply described above, despite your hollow protests which echo WT teaching that the spiritual tripe heaped upon persons by Jehovah's Witnesses is "life-saving," Christ was the model for helping ALL persons, regardless of religious persuasion, both MATERIALLY, PHYSICALLY and SPIRITUALLY. No True Christian can do otherwise.
I hope I'm around to witness your transformation into a caring human being when you finally throw off the shackles of Watchtower religiocentrism.
outnfree