XQsThaiPoes :We allow a wide range of opinions on this forum but there are limits to what is acceptable. Trying to claim that Pedophilia is 'just' a fetish and not a big deal and equating it to homosexuality is crossing that line IMO
I suggest you keep such opinions to yourself in future because they are NOT welcome on this site and show gross disrespect to any who have suffered abuse.
I was in chat with Poes and I warned him that if he keeps going then he will be watched!
I might be wrong, but why do I get the eerie feeling that he's grooming us to lower the threshold concerning paedophilia?
Once one threshold is lowered, the next one will be discussed.
A sociopath reasons this way. They groom their victim until the victim
sees it the way he does.
(I'm not saying Poes is a sociopath; please don't get me wrong. It takes a professional to confirm it, which I'm not)
So just for informational purpose and protection for the naive here are a few characteristic features on how to recognize such person.
Glibness/Superficial Charm Language can be used without effort by them to confuse and convince their audience. Captivating storytellers that exude self-confidence, they can spin a web that intrigues others. Since they are persuasive, they have the capacity to destroy their critics verbally or emotionally.
Manipulative and Conning They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They dominate and humiliate their victims.
Pathological Lying Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and able to pass lie detector tests
Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.
Shallow Emotions When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion, it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.
Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity Totalist leaders frequently practice promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts. This is usually kept hidden from all but the inner circle.
These are not the only characteristics which identify a sociopath. There are more.
What I'm trying to say is that we have to be very careful when we recognize these
trades.
Andy of the, when I stick out my neck it gets chopped off, class.
ps. I realize this is off topic, yet important enough to pay attention to.