I loved all the get togethers,,even though I'm very critical of myself,,some how they make you feel more accepting of people,,and in turn more accepting of yourself.
You guys who are having these fest are doing a very positive thing in the lives of Xjws,, we come to know each other in a special way here,, on the boards,, because we slow down in our thoughts,, by putting them down in writing. Many of us are healing. That has to be a bond that has a big impact (on some more than others). So with that in mind I would like to say I hope all goes well at these fests. I tend to think these gatherings also strenthen JWD because we get to know each other,, the more likely we will post and keep in touch through the board.
I usually go to these alone as my mate,,doesn't feel comfortable at them,,she hasn't done that much to release her JW hang ups,,and so I have to go a little slow for her,,or if she goes to one I have to be very carefull not to get her upset,,and watch everything I say. So if she don't go,, I usually go just the same,,and relax a little more,,then the next day try to do whatever she wants,, which usually means taking her "shopping" to some place she don't like to drive to by her self. Any way I thought giveing my situation may help some to attend,, for I'm sure there are many in similar shoes.