Jealousy

by Stefanie 31 Replies latest jw friends

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  frenchbabyface

  There is no reason to be jealous (for real - we'll never be better than "everybody" in any case - we never know what's really attract the other one it could be something that you don't like yourself) BUT there is only reason to end up a relationship (it works or not - you can handle it or not) ... Jealousy is not our friend it doesn't help to feel better, it doesn't even help for understanding it only turns you sour, and is always quiet obvious (like the nose in the middle of the face) That's when everybody knows you are not confidente with yourself (Ooops)

  Those who likes you to be jealous are not your friends
  And those who are suffering from your jealousy won't be able to stay your friend (cause it really sucks at the end - you make yourself your own enemy)
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  FlyingHighNow

  My current four year relationship? He finds any history I have with men exciting to think about. He embraces it and celebrates that history. The result? I no longer feel shame, regret or guilt about ANYTHING I have done. I am proud of me, my history and my sexuality. I enjoy the physical part and intimate part of our relationship a million(<.......no exaggeration) times more than I ever dreamed possible.

  You are lucky.

  I feel very lucky. I had no idea a man could feel so secure that he wouldn't be petty and jealous over those who preceded him. It's very healing to be loved this way.

  Stefanie, you are very, very exceptionally pretty, assuming that is you in your avatar. I just can't see how any woman your husband went out with or might meet in the future is going to be prettier than you.

  Ask yourself: why does my husband love me? What qualities does he cherish that he is not going to find in someone else? He is in love with YOU. There is obviously something very special and unique about you that he will never find in someone else, no matter how good looking or wonderful they are.

  Flyin'