The world isn't going to end anytime soon. Take your time, and enjoy life!
My fiance is sometimes puzzled about my laid back attitude sometimes. Sometimes I say things like, "I should start the dishwasher, but first I'll finish my cigarette." I don't put off starting the dishwasher, I just do it after I'm finished what I'm doing. With her, she'll smoke and start the dishwasher at the same time. She's constantly overloading herself with tasks. It's rare when I overload myself.