by Englishman 47 Replies latest jw friends
I tried Sally, I really tried.
I starved myself for weeks and did my situps.
I'm glad you appreciated them though. No one else did. I am so alone and no one loves or understands me. Help me.....I need attention....
So you really thought I looked good?
Another good quote, from Simon, regarding this whole mess....
people should not use the forum to 'get back' at people or expect the moderators to take sides.
Six seemed very nice when I met him.
I wish everyone could get along and treat each other with respect and kindness.
Six ????? Give me a break !!! Whoever started that rumor, cut the crap !!!!!!!!!!!
E'man,
Knowing Six, he is thick-skinned enough to take the tittle-tattle of vacant brains in his stride. A number of years ago Six accidentally discovered my real name. I trust very few people online, least of all his critics, but this event led me to a territory of trust with him and I can vouch for his integrity. Not only that, but he is a very talented photographer.....so he tells me.
I am not sure that the speculations by many of the residents of JehovahsCoronationStreet.com should be given any serious credibility. Having ones reputation attacked by a few bored, and it has to be said, boring gossips is hardly going to do Six any permanent harm.
Best regards - HS
Not only that, but he is a very talented photographer.....so he tells me.
Yes he is. I saw him on a documentary about JFK's assassination and a reenactment photographers were involved in. He was mentioned by name and interviewed. I was screaming at the TV because I had met him at Halloween a couple of weeks earlier, in Florida. So I looked him up on the internet and there is some of his work online. He is good!
I was sick that another discussion board was saying he was the person women should beware of, because I knew it wasn't him. They were saying it was confirmed to be him. That is just so irresponsible, it literally hurt me. Thanks Mike for doing this thread. He sure didn't deserve to be slandered like that for an instant.
This whole situation is none of our business, and I agree it has no place being discussed here. Remember we left the JW's, and many of us left for those reasons, that we had no personal privacy. And others were supposed to intervene in the sticky situations we got ourselves into.
I haven't seen him on the board lately... is he taking a break after all the fuss?
I don't know six, but I don't believe everything I read either. It just seems to me that ALL OF THIS would have been avoided if the person starting the thread had just come out and said who it was in the first place. No "suspicions," no "inuendos," none of the "gossip," (by MEN and women) no 2 or 3 page threads speculating about who it "might" be. No one would have a black eye.
Just the facts, ma'am. Just the facts.
ALL OF THIS would have been avoided if the person starting the thread had just come out and said who it was in the first place
That would have been ridiculously unfair to that person.
It could have been avoided if it had been settled offline, and not have all of us dragged into a personal situation. No one needs to be warned about him. Remember there are two sides to every story.
I don't know six, but I don't believe everything I read either. It just seems to me that ALL OF THIS would have been avoided if the person starting the thread had just come out and said who it was in the first place. No "suspicions," no "inuendos," none of the "gossip," (by MEN and women) no 2 or 3 page threads speculating about who it "might" be. No one would have a black eye.
No it wouldnt have been better to name the person, it would have been very unfair.
Quote from Simon concerning this matter
For the record, the issue that seem to have prompted this thread has, after looking at all the evidence, nothing AT ALL to do with 'stalkers and perps'.No one has been, or is being, stalked. It was simply a case of a short-term online relationship that didn't go anywhere and should NEVER have become any sort of forum issue.
Since people started threads making allegations, it has become one which has not been fair on those involved and certainly not on others who have been labelled through speculation (such as sixofnine)
This doesn't alter the fact that if people are receiving unwanted attention via this site (PMs, Chat) then they should report it and we will take action if necessary.
However, none of the 'attention' seems to have been unwanted at the time and people should be responsible for their own actions and consequences IMO. If there has been any fault then it has been on all sides and nothing to do with us!
As a side note, some have inferred that some sort of 'predatory' behavior has gone on warranting warning etc... and this is simply NOT the case. If people are really concerned about this then having secret relationships behind their partners back and having to keep their relationship hidden is what puts them at risk of being used. If people are open and honest then they are not at such risk as, if someone is playing games, there is chance for others to raise the alarm.
If you don't want to get burnt, don't play with matches !
