Six Of Nine. (page 4)

Tatiana

So, it's better to have six be hurt (or slandered) than to have the real person revealed? I dont' get that.

And the feelings of the females who have been hurt by "him" don't matter?

hillary_step

tatiana,

The supposed issues took place *off* this Board, why should they be introduced *to* the Board.

If a couple, or even a triple meet at a coffee shop, and then things work out badly between them, should they go back to that coffee shop warning the rest of the clientelle about the persons involved. This is just a discussion Board, nothing more and nothing less. Poeple must learn to sort out their own problems and to take repsonsibility for their own actions, whoever they might be.

As to Six's supposed involment, *anybody* with even a few very primitive brain cells knows that he was not involved. The issue is just being used by some people, who know that he was not involved in this issue, to settle old scores. It is a tried and tested XJW Discussion Board methodology, it has no value intellectually or ethically. And is worthy of a ten foot

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So, it's better to have six be hurt (or slandered) than to have the real person revealed?

No, it is better to deal with this issue where it started - away from this Board

I dont' get that. And the feelings of the females who have been hurt by "him" don't matter?

Nobody is saying that. They are saying it is not the place of this Board or its moderators to involve themselves in something that is *not* their business. If you wish to know who the players, all of them imho in need of a wake up call, then write to the persons who have identified themselves and find out. Is this so hard to understand?

Best regards - HS

Tatiana

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Big Tex

Six is a good guy and I'm proud to call him a friend. He was not involved in this situation in any way. I for one am sorry his name was attached somehow.

It would be better to let the parties involved work this out themselves. What happens off the board should be resolved in the same way. Since this is a private matter, speculation and random comments can only hurt innocent people, as has happened here.

If anyone has a problem or concern about another poster, please PM one of the forum assistants and we'll do our best to help with anything that is board-related.

"It has been my experience that everyone on the internet should be careful about whom they trust and how intimate they become, lest they are taken advantage of...."

Well said. This board is moderated and we try to keep it as safe and friendly as possible, but when dealing with the Internet caveat emptor applies.

Chris

Mulan

However, none of the 'attention' seems to have been unwanted at the time and people should be responsible for their own actions and consequences IMO. If there has been any fault then it has been on all sides and nothing to do with us!

Very, very good point.

Angharad

And the feelings of the females who have been hurt by "him" don't matter?

We are not saying that.

We are saying it should never have become a forum issue, but it did when the accusations were made,. This was a case of a mutual relationship that didnt work out, not stalking or unwanted attention.

Everyone involved in this seems to have had feelings hurt, but it would not be fair for just one party to be publically lynched by naming them in that thread especically with stalking and predatory accusations, when the fault is on all sides.

Tatiana

If a couple, or even a triple meet at a coffee shop, and then things work out badly between them, should they go back to that coffee shop warning the rest of the clientelle about the persons involved. This is just a discussion Board, nothing more and nothing less. Poeple must learn to sort out their own problems and to take repsonsibility for their own actions, whoever they might be

No, of course not. But, if this person goes back to the coffee shop after dumping other women at the same coffee shop, and the pattern continues, methinks other women in the coffee shop will get the message.

Also, what if a decent guy here now wants to pursue a relationship with someone he meets here? He might hesitate now that no one knows who this person is. If most of the other females here have no clue, like I don't have a clue, they will certainly not respond to the "decent" guy, thinking, "This could be who they were talking about. I better not trust anyone."

logansrun

All I know is Six was making passes at me all weekend in Dallas. Yuck!

B.

Tatiana

Everyone involved in this seems to have had feelings hurt, but it would not be fair for just one party to be publically lynched by naming them in that thread, when the fault is on all sides.

But the females have already told who they were. And been publicly chastised I might add. So, it's just the male who's not known.

Angharad

But the females have already told who they were. And been publicly chastised I might add. So, it's just the male who's not known

Yes and that was their choice to do so.

We will not compromise other peoples privacy when the accusations made were unfounded. If this man wants to come forward and identify himself, then that is his choice but we will not name him.

Six Of Nine.

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