Even though Terry seems to want to convey to all of us that his theory is absolute, (which seems to be a contradiction in itself), there is some validity to his comment, IMO.
The other point that I might elaborate on, Terry, as Gumby, Valis and Brummie touched on is that people search for and hold onto things based on THEIR OWN perception of what they believe will make them satisfied.
With imperfect parents, grandparents, etc., this undoubtedly leaves the option open for imperfect kids.
The biggest problem with JW's and other similar high-control religions is that they preach that they are a cure-all when in fact they are more of a disease. This denial of reality fosters even more problems and eventually leads to complete changes in philosophy, (noticed by us but not most people)when their delusional teachings make them look so extreme that true human intuitions take over, exposing their previous teachings as false to the rest of mankind.
In an ideal world, they would, first and foremost admit that they are not perfect. When this idea of perfection entered into our existence I am not sure of, but it has been playing havoc with our innate human nature that understands that perfection is not possible.
Perfection would include a ying but not a yang.... not possible. I recently asked my very devout JW Uncle a question that I'm sure is similar to questions that a lot of us have asked our JW friends/family. I said, "In the new system, if I purposely run head-first into a tree, will it not hurt? Will I not be paralyzed?" His response was that if I did it on purpose it would be disrespectful to Jehovah, the giver of life (and ironically the same guy who gave me the choice to do so.... teehee) and I would likely be cast out of "Paradise". I asked, "What if it was after Satan was gone for good and I was already perfect?" "Well then that couldn't happen, if you were perfect already."
Brad