Ok folks:
Look, use whatever labels you need to help yourselves feel comfortable or superior. My IQ, if you understand IQ's, has absolutely nothing to do with being perfect or superior over anyone. I am a scientist and an inventor of new products with a few patents. I have the ability to "see" a product or invention in its completed form before it is even drawn onto paper for the first time. Some people can do math in their head as quickly as a calculator. Some people have great social skills. When I refered to my IQ, I was making a statement with regard to myself NOT for my IQ, in itself. I was making a statement in comparison to my ability to do some things greatly, while feeling a failure to help my brother to escape something that I have never studied and know very little about. WHO, then, better to turn to than those who have been there, such as yourselves. Perhaps, as some of you have shown me, it was stupid of me to choose to come here, then. Certainly, there must be more to the english language than to ridicule if not that it is meant precicely to communicate. Regardless of anyone's interpretation that I am stupid, or that my brother or my family is stupid, or that what I choose to do or write on this website is stupid... I will take responsibility for my own actions and take the consequences, too, should my actions prove to be stupid.
I am sorry that what I have written is so unbelievable. For example: Are you aware that his wife is nearly blind? She can hear very well and knows how to throw a bottle and knives in the direction iof his voice. Is it, then, understandable that she could easily sit inside of someone elses car that resembled her own car without knowing the difference? Perhaps, it is more clear to you now that you have chosen to disregard me as unbelievable and stupid for your own sake and comfort than to set aside your own bias' for the sake of listening while realizing that you can not possibly know everything about everyone or every situation, or even enough to reach a conclusion that I am a liar, a fake... or that I am simply "not worth caring about" or that you "don't care about me" or the situation I am asking help for. That is certainly fine with me. I do not need to know you personally to know you. I have read plenty. As for myself, I am comfortable with who I am and accept my own credibility regardless of the bias' of others.
To be "Beaten down" for 22 years day after day, week after week, year after year... and to have such a strong group of people telling him that he MUST remain married to her or else he will be condemned, PLUS the "fact" that he will not be one of the 144,000 people welcomed into Heaven, but only remain on an earthly paradise... AFTER having already suffered years of abuse,,,,, He stayed in it because he believed that in the end it would pay off and be worth it, since "worldly things" do not matter. He stayed because of that reason... but he can now barely function as a result of the continuous abuse. That is not hard to understand.
What IS difficult to understand is HOW do I persuade him in a covert manner to look at things differently without him realizing that I have been in contact with Apostates ? He will undoubtedly raise his defenses and thwart my efforts to lead him astray and free him (unknowingly) away from the insanity that he has become so closely related with. Stupid or not..... it is what it is and I am what I am.
Being stupid is a relative and ambiguous state of being. Try using your current intelligence 10,000 years from now. Try to explain to George Washington what a microwave is and how it works. Unravel the mystery of Black Holes and Space Time through Quantum Physics so that mathematically your answers are accurate. WHAT is "stupid"?