Kent:
You said...
"Well, I believe you're a real prime example of an idiot. I don't know what you look like, but I believe you're ugly as hell. I also do believe you had a lobothomy a few years back."
Why, thank you, Kent, that's the nicest thing you've ever said to me. I am ugly, no doubt about that. As for the lobotomy(sic), well, I woke up one day and my JW cell had been removed from my brain. I don't know if that would qualify as a lobotomy.
I seem to be getting a lot of flack about not criticizing people as individuals for what they believe. Please know that I certainly didn't mean that all beliefs are worthy of respect. Beliefs are subject to acceptance or rejection. That's our own personal decision.
To win over a person to your point of view requires persuasion, not a frontal assault on their value system. Insult someone and their attitude becomes, 'Don't confuse me with the facts, my mind is made up.' Show them the opposing view and let their own logical thinking process work it out. How many former JW posts on this forum and others reflect this very process? Quite a few, I would guess.
That's all I'm saying... Insult someone they become angry and defensive... reason with them and you have a chance to change their point of view.