Now Elders Are Making Elderly & Infirm Feel Guilty For "Being Hooked Up"!

by minimus 51 Replies latest jw friends

  • Voyager
    Voyager

    Minimus makes a good point! I have noticed that in certain Watchtower and Awake articles, that illnesses, accidents, bad backs, bad sore necks, pains, arthritis, bad knees, unable to carry objects even 5 pounds,---makes (no) excuse for (not) attending meetings or going out in service.

    Being (hookedup) to a telephone, when (they) judge that you (could really) be at the meetings is being frowned upon. Here is just one of the articles I found. No doubt, this sister should have been (hooked-up) to a telephone while healing from her conditions! But instead?

    Watchtower/2002/Feb/15th/page-21/

    15 A longtime servant of Jehovah in New Mexico, U.S.A., was in two automobile accidents. Her neck and shoulders were injured, aggravating an arthritic condition with which she had been coping for over 25 years. She relates: "I had great difficulty holding my head up and carrying anything weighing over five pounds [2 kg]. But fervent prayer to Jehovah has sustained me greatly. So have the articles in The Watchtower that we have studied. One commented on Micah 6:8, noting that being modest in walking with God means knowing one?s limitations. This helped me to appreciate that in spite of my condition, I should not get discouraged, even though the time I spent in the ministry was less than I wished. Serving him with pure motives is primarily what counts."

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    She also reports: "The elders always commended me for my efforts to attend the meetings and to go out in the field ministry. Young ones would greet me with a hug. The pioneer ministers were so patient with me and often rearranged their plans on my bad days. When the weather was difficult, they would kindly take me on return visits or invite me to sit in on their Bible studies. And since I could not carry a book bag, other publishers put my literature in their bag when I went out in the preaching work."
  • kls
    kls

    That is the jws code to make all members feel guilt in all walks of life and in every way. If not guilt they are threathened with death. Nope , i don't see a cult here.

  • minimus
    minimus

    You got rheumatoid arthritis? Heart trouble? Cancer? Stomach problems, Dementia??? There's still no better place to be than in the Kingdom Hall.

  • sf
    sf

    Tell her to google more and stay off the phone!!

    LOLOLOLOL

    sKally

  • EvilForce
    EvilForce

    Yet another example of "it's never good enough". So sick you are bed ridden? Hook up online....so you hook up online to listen to the meetings. Then that isn't good enough either. Nothing is ever good enough, EVER!

  • talesin
    talesin

    Min,

    I am sick of hearing this routine -- "I really should be at the Hall" -- when my mother should NOT be going to large gatherings, putting herself at risk of infection. She frets about this constantly. It's so wrong.

    But NO they have to lay the old guilt trip on a sick old woman who has devoted, DEVOTED, her entire life to them. grrrr

    tal

  • minimus
    minimus

    The last 3 years my mother has not gone to a convention. The last time she and another handicapped sister tried to sit in seats they were told to walk up a number of stairs because the seats thet hoped to sit in were roped off. Since they couldn't sit without walking with great difficulty to the correct seats---they left.

  • Dragonlady76
    Dragonlady76

    My grandma is ill and unable to attend all meetings so she get's hooked up, I will have to see if she has been asked to attend more meetings so that she can be in fellowship with the other backstabbers loving brothers and sisters.

    DL76

  • minimus
    minimus

    Like I said, she may feel this way even more so because she won't rat on me. A lot of talks and comments at the meetings have been given on this lately.

  • Voyager
    Voyager

    Minimus: Here is another article (promoting) getting to the meetings (no-matter) what the physical trials and tribulations are!

    Awake/1993/June/8th/page-14/

    One disabled African girl named Jay lived the life of a recluse, venturing out of the small compound where she lived only once in her 18 years. After studying the Bible with Jehovah?s Witnesses, she began attending Christian meetings. This required her to "walk" several blocks, pulling herself forward by her hands, dragging her torso behind her.

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