I thought the generation change would be like a ship hitting an iceberg for the Witness people but it was like they didn't even notice
My thought, exactly! I was so stunned at the (lack of) reaction of my fellow dubs. And I was the WT conductor in those days. I prepared for this study like mad, ready to put a positive spin on it, certain that many members of the congo would be confused and shocked by this "new light." Didn't happen. The comments during the meeting were routine. One elder pointed out at the key paragraph that this was 'new information" from the Society and wasn't Jah's org wonderfully progressive, yada yada. The after-meeting conversation was the same old-same old. I walked around the hall chatting up folks and there was not ONE comment on it. I felt like I'd wandered into the twilight zone.
I was so confused by this that I went to the afternoon meeting just to hear the WT Study, thinking the other congo would register the reaction I expected to see. Nope. Same damn thing. The Stepford Wives (and Husbands) were all programmed alike. That was the beginning of the end for me. Alas, it was nearly 8 more years before I escaped. Stockholm Syndrome, as someone suggested above. That's the only explanation.
Several years later, it must have been 2002 or thereabouts, I was out in FS with a min svt and he was discouraged that so few people from our book study were showing up for service on Saturday mornings. He said it was a trend that kept getting worse, and wondered if there was some problem in the congo. I told him that since 1995, when the WTS published new light on the "generation" doctrine, there was clearly a lack of urgency among the "friends" and that in my view it was getting more pronounced. He had that wide-eyed look as we talked until I suddenly realized he had no idea what I was talking about! I had to explain what the Nov 1995 WT had said about the new understanding of "generation." He was just amazed at such a thing, and this was 7 freakin' years later!
So, GaryBuss is right, many of them didn't even notice.