I only hope that one day you and I will be calling each other 'brother'. God Bless!
It seems that many things that are said have a variety of meanings when put under scrutiny. When you say that you would like to call him "brother", I have to wonder the meaning behind this statement.
Does it mean that you would like him to "come back into the fold" of the WTS? This would mean that in order to think of him as a brother, that he would have to make some necessary changes.
Or does it mean the feeling that we are all brothers in God's eyes? Nope, couldn't be that meaning, because that is already in effect even though you don't see it that way.
To the JW-WTS, only an obedient, loyal and approved associate can readily be viewed as a "brother", and even that is tenuous at best. This "brotherhood" is only contingent upon how well the "brother's" relationship with the WTS is, and not based upon yur relationship with one another may be.
Jesus said "whereas all you are brothers" at Matt 23:8b.
Sorry to go off on this tangent, but this IS a very sensitive subject to me and a lot of others who have simply decided to leave the WTS and not DFed for unscriptural behavior.
Annie