Bluefluff

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  Gods turf

  by darth frosty in

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  Bluefluff

  The circle doesn't encompass Malta or Crete or Italy...all places mentioned in the New Testament. Although as the god of the New Testament didn't really ever 'act' I suppose this is true to an extent.
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  Hello - mentally out, physically in...

  by Bluefluff in

  1. jw
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  i have been lurking for a while but was encouraged to sign up by a user on the ex jw reddit forum.

  i'm a still in jw but i've been mentally out for about two months.

  i'm an ms and i'm also gay so i have two lots of 'coming out' to do very soon!.

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  @ bigmac - thank you. I'm not on Facebook unfortunately and it's now impossible to sign up without giving your mobile number so I won't be!

  @onthewayout - thank you. I'm hoping it works!

  @LisaRose - thank you...yes I have read it and found it very relatable.

  @Phizzy - that's encouraging...cold turkey is my intention too

  @ABibleStudent - yes I was born in. I have done some reading into the BITE model and wow was it eye opening. Haven't read his book though so maybe I should. Thank you.

  Everyone else - Thanks for the warm welcome!
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  Hello - mentally out, physically in...

  by Bluefluff in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been lurking for a while but was encouraged to sign up by a user on the ex jw reddit forum.

  i'm a still in jw but i've been mentally out for about two months.

  i'm an ms and i'm also gay so i have two lots of 'coming out' to do very soon!.

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  @Kate - I'm not especially close to my parents, awful as that sounds. I'm hoping that coming out to them as gay will have more of an impact on them than telling them the TTATT will. They're too blinded (and I've already tried). However they do have emotions so I think appealing to them on an emotional level is the only way they'll understand...
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  Hello - mentally out, physically in...

  by Bluefluff in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been lurking for a while but was encouraged to sign up by a user on the ex jw reddit forum.

  i'm a still in jw but i've been mentally out for about two months.

  i'm an ms and i'm also gay so i have two lots of 'coming out' to do very soon!.

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  @quellycatface. Have already done that! My responsibilities have been removed but they're reluctant to take me off as an MS. But I think it may be better this way as announcement removing me as an MS would make me memorable again....
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  Hello - mentally out, physically in...

  by Bluefluff in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been lurking for a while but was encouraged to sign up by a user on the ex jw reddit forum.

  i'm a still in jw but i've been mentally out for about two months.

  i'm an ms and i'm also gay so i have two lots of 'coming out' to do very soon!.

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  @DJS Thank you. Yes I know I need to be careful; I've already slipped up a few times.

  And thanks for the warning re: the forum! As my eyes have been opened that the world is not the wicked place I've been taught, I'm becoming more aware that the actions and words of a minority can affect the stereotype of the majority. Don't worry, I know not all apostates are the same. ;)
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  Hello - mentally out, physically in...

  by Bluefluff in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been lurking for a while but was encouraged to sign up by a user on the ex jw reddit forum.

  i'm a still in jw but i've been mentally out for about two months.

  i'm an ms and i'm also gay so i have two lots of 'coming out' to do very soon!.

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  @kneehighmiah I don't really have the patience or desire to fade. I intend on just stopping. I'm mentally prepared for the consequences.
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  Hello - mentally out, physically in...

  by Bluefluff in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been lurking for a while but was encouraged to sign up by a user on the ex jw reddit forum.

  i'm a still in jw but i've been mentally out for about two months.

  i'm an ms and i'm also gay so i have two lots of 'coming out' to do very soon!.

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  @cantleave, yes I'm in the UK. Where can I find these support groups?
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  Hello - mentally out, physically in...

  by Bluefluff in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been lurking for a while but was encouraged to sign up by a user on the ex jw reddit forum.

  i'm a still in jw but i've been mentally out for about two months.

  i'm an ms and i'm also gay so i have two lots of 'coming out' to do very soon!.

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  @jgnt yes I have a hazy exit plan. I have already had my responsibilities removed at my request. My exit plan involves moving far away so I don't think an LGBT support group will be much help, yet.
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  Hello - mentally out, physically in...

  by Bluefluff in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been lurking for a while but was encouraged to sign up by a user on the ex jw reddit forum.

  i'm a still in jw but i've been mentally out for about two months.

  i'm an ms and i'm also gay so i have two lots of 'coming out' to do very soon!.

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  Bluefluff

  Hi

  I have been lurking for a while but was encouraged to sign up by a user on the Ex JW reddit forum. I'm a still in JW but I've been mentally out for about two months. I'm an MS and I'm also gay so I have two lots of 'coming out' to do very soon!

  Hopefully I'll be able to get some encouragement from this forum!
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  hello

  by fakefading in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hello my fellow "apostates".

  just wanted to say hi.

  i'm still in the borg but mentally out.

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  Assuming you're the same fakefading as on reddit then I've met you there! I'm new here to and was wondering where I put an introductory post so thank you! I now know...