Brad, how is marrying someone raised a JW but not baptized any different than marrying someone who has never been around the WTS?
Blondie,
You're kidding right?
Neither are baptized. Neither will get baptized before the marriage (no time). Since neither are baptized, they can get married in the hall, despite what they have been doing. But yeah, like you said if one was baptized already, the other would have to get baptized before they could get married in the hall.
But back to your question. If neither one ever had anything to do with the WTBTS they wouldn't be getting married so quickly. Regardless of a person's view of whether people should have sex before marriage or not, after the act has happened, it is sad that the solution to the problem is to go ahead and get married.
My friend's parents have made it very clear that they do not like the guy. They even recognize that he is controlling and mean to her. They didn't want her to see him even BEFORE they were "getting into trouble". Yet now, it's "Go ahead and get married", because to them, in that JW mentality it's more important to FOLLOW THE RULES than it is to find a good partner in life.
Sad indeed. I feel really bad for his sister. If/When she does marry him I will help her in anyway I can as far as making it work, but I fear that she is going to be a very miserable girl. She just turned 18, after all.
Brad