YOU make dinner (not take-out).
Candle-lit, with wine.
You lead her to the bedroom, and an awesome massage, not just her feet.
You will both make "meeting" night special.
berrygerry
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How to make the most of wife not going to service meeting?
by FadeToBlack inout of the blue, my wife told me that after this week's service meeting on friday (co visit) she is not going to anymore meetings during the week at night.
only sunday (am) meetings.
she explained that it is difficult and not safe for her to drive after dark (vision issues: i have the same problem so i couldn't help her if i wanted to).
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What I Miss
by FreeGirl2006 intoday i had to drive by several homes of dubs i knew most of my life and it kicked off a longing i have for my siblings and the faux-friends i grew up with.
not necessarily the people in and of themselves, but people who knew me way back when.
being raised in the borg the only "friends" i had were indoctrinated.
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berrygerry
I so empathise with you.
Life is about people.
Most often built at high school, college, or work.
As JW's, we dismissed all of those evil non-JW's.
When you go out, you start from scratch.
When you are older, it is a challenge.
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New ExJW here for the first time.
by WideAwake7 ini am here for the first time ...but have enjoyed reading others experiences that i feel i can relate too.
i used to be an elder for more than 20 years .
i have successfully faded with my wife and children.
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berrygerry
You are so lucky to have your family out with you.
Be polite and loving.
If any ask the JW involvement questions, just explain that life has been so busy, that you cannot be as involved as many expect, but that you have diligently prayed to Jehovah about our family's situation, and that he expects me to not be worse than a person without faith (1 Tim 5:8), so you are trying your hardest to provide for your family, as Jehovah requires.
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worst canadian band - lighthouse
by berrygerry inlighthouse.. a pathetic copy of chicago (an over-rep'd band imo).
thoughts?.
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berrygerry
Okay, I now hate you. (JK)
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worst canadian band - lighthouse
by berrygerry inlighthouse.. a pathetic copy of chicago (an over-rep'd band imo).
thoughts?.
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berrygerry
Lighthouse.
A pathetic copy of Chicago (an over-rep'd band IMO)
Thoughts?
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Co's visit - fall 2014 - old references to Russell
by berrygerry ini'm presently listening to the co's visit of fall 2014.. he is referencing many references to russell's beliefs of the 1800's and 1903.. sadly, i did not record these comments from his talk.. anyone else have these comments?.
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berrygerry
I'm presently listening to the Co's visit of fall 2014.
He is referencing many references to Russell's beliefs of the 1800's and 1903.
Sadly, I did not record these comments from his talk.
Anyone else have these comments?
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Billy Idol - New Album
by berrygerry ini'd always thought that billy idol made far too little music.. what a sweet surprise to see him on jkl tonight,.
voice hasn't changed a bit.. .
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berrygerry
I'd always thought that Billy Idol made far too little music.
What a sweet surprise to see him on JKL tonight,
Voice hasn't changed a bit.
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Using the "C-Word" With My Wife
by breakfast of champions inmonths ago, i commented on another thread about a strategy i was using to introduce my wife to the way cults work--without using the word "cult" and scaring her away.
here's my first comment on that thread:.
i pulled hassan's bite model off the internet and imported it into my word processor.
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berrygerry
You (and she) are lucky peeople.
As per the July 2011 WT, you should try and "infect" your relatives before you become mentally diseased.
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Shootings in multiple locations in Canada's capital today - Wed Oct 22/14
by Heaven inone soldier is shot at war memorial.
multiple shooters suspected.
national post has live updates:.
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berrygerry
A must post for me
Several of my fellow Canuck members, whose posts I revere, have expressed political views about this event.
To me, the displays of the Cdn Parliament leaders to each other today in the House, was exemplary.
I understand Harper's ideology, and have a few disagreements thereby.
However, when push comes to shove, when critical decisions need to be made, waffling in fear of public opinion is the worst element of a public figure.
(A fan of Ralph Klein political openness.)
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baby or no baby?
by Dudu inthat is the question for the next months ... i am 32 and i will turn 33 on december....i am freaking out!!!
my hubby and i have no children and we are not looking for one right now because im studying a masters.
i will finish subjects in june and after that i will write my thesis (6 more months).
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berrygerry
Dudu:
33 is not old. Believe me.
After 3 wonderful children, my wife suffered through 2 miscarriages.
She desperately needed to have more children because of the miscarriages.
So, I consented to 2 more.
She was 45 at the birth of our 5th.
There is an absolute risk of Downs and other genetic anomalies with older ages.
The challenge that I raise with becoming pregnant in your 40's is more the lack of energy that is required in parenting.
Babies are exhausting (and expensive), especially when you have 2 or 3 in diapers at the same time.
Are they worth it?
Absolutely. Nothing turns you into a better human being than being a parent.
Research the CRITICAL importance of folic acid for all ages, but especially for older (? - not in 20's) gals, as well as taking PreTerna.
If, at the time you decide to conceive, and you are using chemical contraceptives (the pill), discontinue it's use for at least a month (make buddy wear a trenchcoat in the meantime) before that very memorable night.
During pregnancy, NO CAFFEINE OR ALCOHOL OR NICOTINE.
FINISH YOUR MASTER'S FIRST.
Dr. GerryBerry
PS: And, listen to classical music during your pregnancy. Trust me. (Music is the heart and soul of humanity.) Mozart and Tchaikovsky are amazing IMO. (I love rock BTW, but classical is to rock, what arithmetic is to algebra - Pink Floyd excepted.)