hi.i've been pouring over this site for the past few days looking for some advice and i hope there is someone here that can help a guy out.
i'm desperate.....short bio: i came into the organization after high school and shortly after married a wonderful girl who was born-in.we have been happily married now for nearly 20 years and things were well until 2015 hit.
by the way, i currently serve as an elder and have the ""privilege"" of being the "watchtower overseer".. either here nor there, we were told we would never have children but late last year my wife became prego!!
Welcome to my boat, i wasn't an elder...i was an MS. i noticed the BS and the Nov 13 WT that said to obey no matter what was a "WTF". i knew then i had to get out.
i changed congos, during that time i was able to step down. i used the excuse of work.
but, this has take a toll on my marriage. we too have been together 27 years....we are on the brink of divorce. she is so blinded by the watchtower.
i wish you luck and hope everything works out for you.
drop me a message is you want to talk.
there doing this right under my nose but i just found out.
not sure what to do but would like your help on getting me wt information on my headship role and how they shouldn't be doing this with out my permission.
also would like some help on showing my son the ramifications on what happens to someone when they get baptized and how they'll expect him to treat me.
are you still married? i would get a court order to stop it! it's for his safety,
he is still your child....do you share custody?
a little more info on your role with him would be helpful to help you.
my nephew is a sweet, smart, thoughtful person.
he wants to go to college.. normally, a mom would be proud to have a son like this.. nope, not a friggin jw mom.
apparently, he's being selfish to both her and jehovah.
this sucks Cognac....something that would be a no brainer for a normal person or family.
i was thinking something similar earlier....my youngest son wants to do halloween this year or do a birthday, but NO! my wife blows a gasket. something so simple, a no brainer for normal people.
for this reason and many more....i hate this cult. it has ruined my family and marriage.
i really don't know what i am going to do.
boy oh boy did i feel paranoid at today's wt.
not only are we to watch our associations outside of the congregation, but also watch our associations 'within' the congregation.
this was emphasised by the wt study conductor.
yep, it turned on my wifes cult mode.
so this is just so nauseating to me when she noddes her head in agreement and in a low voice or sound does a "mmm uh" in agrrement.
but here is the deal, she never aswers at the meetings.
she doesn't go out in service often.
Sabin: i have to go on occasion...if you read my previous posts. i don't go because i want to...i go to the meeting for 2 reasons.
1. to try and keep the peace with my wife.
2. protect my children, whom are made to go by my wife. from preditors in the hall.
but, i truely hate going....i so disgusting to go.
so this is just so nauseating to me when she noddes her head in agreement and in a low voice or sound does a "mmm uh" in agrrement.
but here is the deal, she never aswers at the meetings.
she doesn't go out in service often.
so this is just so nauseating to me when she noddes her head in agreement and in a low voice or sound does a "mmm uh" in agrrement.
but here is the deal, she never aswers at the meetings. she doesn't go out in service often. she doesn't study the bible. only the watchtower trash. she doesn't have reasoning ability. this action is just annoying has all F%&k.
why does she do this.
1. to show the elders and everyone around her that she agree's with whats being said?
2.to show me she agree's with what being said?
for those of you that did this when you were in. help me understand, why?
my husband was recently subjected to an intervention by his parents.
i am apparently a danger to his spirituality.
after i stopped attending meetings and went apostate hubby decided to resign as a ms to spend more time with me.
1. boring as s***e 2. extremely boring 3. boring as hell 4. boring.
5. slightly boring 6. not bad.
7. fair.
a hilarious stupid wa message is being circulated amongst jws in my area / country.. i had a hearty laugh at the ignorance and stupidity and brainwashed mentality, different people may express different emotions so you have been warned.
day one after armageddon it seems ages since we last heard the gunshots and screams, today has been really quiet.
the last few weeks have been sheer terror.
i could only read a few paragraphs before i started feeling disgusted.
what a fairytale, BARF.
i am sure through and through dubs who read this are in their glory and filled with something.
disgusting.
