Never mind Gay Elders. We had two pioneer brothers in the congregation who turned out to be gay. They were from two JW families, fathers Elders. Brought up in the truth etc etc. They were about 14/15 when I first met them. They became full time pioneers when they left school, usual part time jobs etc. Became Min Servants at 20. Always the ones to do items on field service at meetings. Always seemed to be out on the ministry together.
Anyway to cut a long story short. I met one of them, in a restaurant, about a year ago. I had heard they had both left the JW's. Thats when he told me why. They both decided that they couldn't keep the pretense up anymore. Seems they had been "gay lovers" since they were 16. So as not to hurt family, they had decided to keep it secret. By throwing themselves into the ministry they had diverted people away from why they were always together. Turned out that times when they were thought to be knocking on doors, they were at one or the other house in bed together. They kept this pretense going for about ten years. Gave up pioneering, got full time jobs, a place of their own away from the area, and moved in together. Was there uproar in congregation, were they DF'd etc. No! Because fathers both senior Elders, the CO was a relative and no one said a word about it. He told me a few other things that went on as well not only in the congregation, but in the local area, and circuit. He said many young brothers are into the "gay scene" he has seen them at gay clubs and bars.
I must have looked dumbfounded with everything he was telling. He said "So you see the JW's are not the "clean and spotless" lot you thought they were."
Not that I did, but it certainly revealed to me another side of the WT.