Posts by Happythoughts

you heard that song: "I'm like a bird, I only fly away. I don't know where my heart is, don't know where my soul is." Just a thought..... Who sings that song anyway?

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Would You Ever Sue Someone or a Company???

by minimus in

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i know some people that are "sue-crazy".

if they can sue a store or insurance company over anything, they will.

what would justify suing over a matter, to you?

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Would you sue if a person or company meant no intent to cause harm yet proved to be negligent???

I suppose it depends on how bad the injury is... If it's something that will affect me for the rest of my life, I would say yes. Otherwise my answer would be no.A little pain only makes a person stronger.

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Ending Relationships

by oldcrowwoman in

"it takes courage and honesty to end a relationship---with friends, loved ones, or work relationship.. sometimes, it may appear easier to let the relationship die from lack of attention rather than risk ending it.

sometimes it may appear easier to let the other person take responsibility for ending the relationship.. we may be tempted to take a passive approach.

instead of saying how we feel, what we want or don't want, or what we intend to do, we may begin sabotaging the relationship, hoping to force the other person to do the difficult work.. those are ways to end relationships, but they are not the cleanest or easiest ways.. as we walk this path of self-care, we learn that when it is time to end a relationship, the easiest way is one of honesty and directness, we are not being loving, gentle, or kind by avoiding the truth, if we know the truth.. we are not sparing the others's feelings by sabotaging the the relationship instead of accepting the end or the change, and doing something about it.

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bye bye

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Saw a great bumbersticker today

by Eyebrow2 in

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i believe in life before death.

makes you think, doesn't it?.

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alt

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Annoying double standard...

by Aztec in

i've watched a little bit of mtv lately and it's been absolutely bugging the crap out of me as i watch these inane music videos: men can be physically unattractive but still talented musically and get recognition, not the same for women!

they have to be perfect looking in every way on top of being able to at least carry a tune.

i'm sick of watching beyonce writhe and christina strut around half naked.

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I get so annoyed by it too.

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Is Sex All Men Think About?

by tyydyy in

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for instance: .

car - guys look for a car that will attract women.

so they can have sex.

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Just browsing

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SINGLE or MARRIED : What do you LIKE and DISLIKE

by frenchbabyface in

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single or married or living with someone (if you can talk about).

what do you :like in your situationdislike in your situation.

for better understanding please tell us also your age.

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SINGLE- 30`s I've been single for almost 3 years now. I was with my ex-husband for 10 years. What I like about my situation is that I am no longer owned by someone. LOL I don't have to answer to anyone! BUT to be honest it is not all that great being single. Single mother, work a full time job and have little time to myself or just plain adult time with friends. I miss what I have never had and that's love. I don't feel I have completely healed from my previous relationship.... Hey, I do date a little, but I think at present I am a little reserved.

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What do you hate about your job?

by Gadget in

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normally i love my job, but at 4.50am this morning my alarm went off for me to get ready for work and i hated it so much.

i've been off for 2 weeeks, and my first shift back is a 1ohr shift on a sunday morning.

its enough to make me wish i was getting up for a meeting instead!!!

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having a women Boss................there so mean!!!!!!!!!

I agree woman bosses are a bit more meanBut I find that having a woman boss makes the chances of a promotion much more promising.

I pretty much love everything about my job-if I could change one thing it would have to be the commute.

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Who is your favorite author?

by Happythoughts in

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ayn rand is mine.

just wondering so i can find a new book or books to read *smiles*.

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I like Ayn Rand a lot. Favorite: Dean Koontz

She is one of my all time favorites. It seems to me that Dean Koontz is a winner; do you have a book recommendation?

I have a few Ayn Rand books, but I haven't had the time to sit down and read them. I have 3 other books to finish first.

Atlas Shrugged is my favorite of all her books. It's long but worth the read. I had a hard time getting thru the first 50 pages-after that I couldn't put the darn thing down! Didn't want it to end!Very powerful book. It really made me take a long hard look at my life. It's been hard to find a good read since I finished that book.

A very good friend of mine is considered one of the top (if not the top) world experts on Ayn Rand and objectivism.

When can I meet her/him?? Please schedule a meeting Who is the friend? I think to be an expert in objectivism life would be very fulfilling.

The Fountainhead is another good one.

Aztec,

LOL yes, strange that your mom would name you after Ayn Rand-being a dub and all. It is a nice name anyway:)

I loved "Me Talk Pretty One Day". I couldn't stop laughing when I read the chapter about trying to explain Easter to a bunch of people from differant countries.

I may just have to get this one, I could use a good laugh. Never thought of trying to explain Easter... a bunny that comes in the night to hide eggs and candyLOL