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  nvrgnbk needs to get a life

  by stillajwexelder in

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  2. friends

  nvrgnbk.

  6,644greendawn2,456crumpet2,218free2think2,108minimus2,090onthewayout1,941purplesofa1,785jgnat1,7065go1,677ex-nj-jw1,668 .

  hey nvrgnbk you really need to get a life man - this is six months only!!

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  Sassy

  I think Evilforce & Nvr are one and the same, glad I am not the only one who thought that.

  can't be.. look at the pictures he posted of sexy woman in here->http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/15/140533/1.ashx
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  Share your crazy jw divorce behavior stories

  by arker in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  so after marrying a good jw girl at 18 who was an elders daughter (married at 18 like most jw kids).

  she was leaving for weeks (6-8) at a time to "visit" her parents in the same state(3 hours away).

  i finally had enough of it and told her it was over.

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  Sassy

  well.. as I mentioned earlier elsewhere my ex changed the locks on me when I moved out..

  so I had to get a court order to get my stuff..

  when I got my car, it turned out my ex and his father (AN ELDER) had urninated in every place imaginable.. glove box, ashtrays, etc...

  the ex also stalked me.. I had to get a restraining order for a while..
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  HAVE YOU TRULY LEFT THE WITTNESSES OR ARE YOU STILL ACTING LIKE ONE

  by nightwarrior in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  its been a while since i last posted on the site.. as a wittness i was governed by what i said was supposed to do and even act towards other human beings,my sinful life was ripped away by people using pages of the bible, showing what god wanted from me as a person,unfortunately being scriptually replaced by a character that i never realized, nor truth be told acceptable to jehovah god, but under the guise of a christian, we accept all that is brainwashed into our silly minds.

  accepting all and everything without question,therfore this is known as being brainwashed, without you even knowing it iike so many within the congregation, was forced to adapt to a hidden manifesto which was be seen but not heard.

  complain about any of the elders and you will be disfellowshiped, most of my time i was serving jehovah with a muzzle on my face which would only allow me to speak if i agreed with the elders i wasnot blind but what i saw and experienced as a wittness left me cold.

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  Sassy

  I'll miss you Blondie.. and hope you stop by once in a while.. we'll leave the light on for you...

  have I left the witnesses? oh very much so.. there is little left to define me as JW like..
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  As a JW were you ever counseled about clothes you wore, or lack thereof ?

  by flipper in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  thought this could get interesting discussing experiences.

  i for one was trying to reach out for ministerial servant again in the early 90's , had been one before, and was assigned to carry the microphones one meeting.

  had an elder call me in the back room and say , " brother flipper, i noticed looking down towards your shoes that you are wearing white socks today.

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  Sassy

  yup.. I attended a congregation picnic in shorts they believed were too short.. (ok and they had a small slit up the side too)..

  a sister in the congregation told them that her and her husband had to leave the picnic early because they offended them... so the elders had to come talk to me of course about it.. I should dig out a picture from that picnic and show you the shorts..
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  Has anyone found dating as an EX JW difficult?

  by sweetstuff in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  just curious as to what difficulties have faced people dating as an ex jw.

  myself, i have noticed the glazed over look in a guy's eyes when you try to explain why your family doesn't celebrate the holidays with you etc.

  new to this board, so if this has been well covered before, please forgive me.

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  Sassy

  It defenitely does make you different, I sometimes wondering if dating other ex jw's would be better, because at least they would GET where you come from. Hmm, downside to that, what if they go back?? LOL

  yup.. I've wondered that myself..

  I'd like to try dating an xJW and see if it is better...
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  I LEFT MY HUSBAND last night. Kind words anyone?

  by AWAKE&WATCHING in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am white, my husband is black.

  he is not baptized but goes to all the meetings and is in the school.

  a few months ago i read the following info which i just copied from vinny's thread.

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  Sassy

  Awake&Watching, its good you are getting out of that volitile situation. You don't need that or deserve it.
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  Im down again

  by freeme in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hello people!

  i just have to share this to relax myself a little bit.

  it was very hard yesterday... like not having the strength to go any further.

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  Sassy

  I have no better words of support than what has already been said.. but wanted to add to the support and group hug..

  Hang in there.. meet new people.. its hard losing the dub friends at first because it is all we have...but there will be others in your future and they won't be friends dependent upon you serving the WTS..
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  I LEFT MY HUSBAND last night. Kind words anyone?

  by AWAKE&WATCHING in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am white, my husband is black.

  he is not baptized but goes to all the meetings and is in the school.

  a few months ago i read the following info which i just copied from vinny's thread.

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  Sassy

  well I am so glad you are able to keep going back to get your things.. my first husband changed the locks and I had to get a court order to get anything I wanted out of it...

  including my car.. which he and his elder father urinated in before I could get it..

  you never know what happens when you leave.. so I am so glad to hear you are at least not having too many problems getting your things
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  My mom got disfellowshipped.

  by reneeisorym in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my mom called tonight to tell me that she got disfellowshipped!!!!.

  of course to me this is like the greatest news ever and to her its the worst ever so i'm seriously having a hard time being sympathetic.

  i just know this could mean she's out for good and it definately means i've got my mom back.

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  Sassy

  wow.. you do indeed have a rollercoster ride here.. I was so surprised she was cool about the birthday party and wow about going with you to church.

  but the dub world is the one she knows.. I sure hope you can keep her out...
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  Work Contest unburies pain

  by forsharry in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  not sure why i'm writing this really.

  i'm a grown woman and should be able to deal with these things in a more constructive way.

  and yet here i am... my job is doing a contest...bring in your prom photo and the neatest one will win a really cool prize (it's a weekly celebration for back-to-school around here - i'm in the newspaper business.

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  Sassy

  yeah it totaly sucks that we don't have those memories.. we weren't allowed them... just know you are not alone...