Blackfalcon98
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What I Saw & Heard in the Oral Argument Hearing on January 14, 2015
by ABibleStudent inim not an attorney and i could not record the hearing, so please forgive me if i make mistakes in relating what i remember of the oral argument hearing for jane doe (i.e., candace conti) versus the watchtower bible & tract society on january 14, 2015 and the length of this post.. i arrived at the civic center/union plaza in san francisco, ca about 7:30. the area is very nice with a few homeless people sleeping in the park across from the courthouse.
it took me about 10 minutes to find the clerks office for the court on the first floor, which opened at 8:00.. once the clerks office opened, the two clerks who i talked with were very polite and helpful.
the arguments for jane doe (i.e., candace conti) versus the watchtower bible & tract society were scheduled 5th out of (i think) 8. while i was in the office a cameraman and another person for nbc arrived asking about the hearing for candace contis case.. the courtroom for the 1st appellate court is on the 4th floor and takes up most of that floor.
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Blackfalcon98
Very good notes! Thanks! -
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Awesome movie: "THE GIVER". This is a MUST WATCH for witnesses and those breaking free from the WT!!!
by stuckinarut2 inyou have to watch the movie "the giver"!
it is simply an awesome movie for every thinking witness, or those trying to break free from the org's hold on us.. i wont give away too much, but the concept of the film is mind blowing!
utopia vs reality etc... conformity vs individuality and humanity... etc.
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Blackfalcon98
Read the book in primary school. Definitely a good story, hopefully the movie isn't a poor representation. -
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Kingdom Consolidation and Sales are coming – Reliable Source
by thedepressedsoul ini heard form a reliable source that a kingdom hall consolidation is going to be happening in the us.
currently they are looking at every kingdom hall to see if they could and should sell it.
any kingdom hall that has not been updated and is in a bad location (long driveway, not in a visible location etc...) will be sold.
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Blackfalcon98
Very good thread. Sadly, the R &F will eat this up as Jah's organization on the move. It was once noted how excited uber dubs get about being given the "privilege" ofworkingslaving on these various projects.....This isn't even much about religion, only activity to promote an organization. An organization that does nothing for the people who form the organization. -
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Decided to sign up...
by campaign of hate inso i decided to sign up after many years of lurking.
started researching after finding out about ray franz, which inevitably brought me to this site.. i'm still well and truly inn, but don't want to give any information out, i'm sure you guys know the reasons.. since "jay double you .
org" came online, there has been a definite sense of hysteria with everyone who is "inn", and i get a feeling it's going to get a whole lot crazier as the years press on.. one point i would like to raise is that i feel, without a doubt, that 2034 is going to be the new finish line.
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Blackfalcon98
Welcome to the forum! -
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Separated from a loveless Marriage
by PLAYGROUND ini don't know where to start.
i got married a year and half ago.
some months into the marriage things where discovered.
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Blackfalcon98
If you still believe the JW religion is the way to Jehovah God, well.....you should read your bible more. (and not the NWT) I am so sorry for your pain, and I hope for the best. Perhaps you can persue a marriage counselor or even a personal counselor. You mention being used. If you are a man, I'd recommend getting legal help to ensure that your spouse doesn't bankrupt you following a potential divorce. Please understand that the elders are simply WT company men, and as such they must repeat what they hear from higher ups. Jehovah God see's your efforts to improve your relationship with your spouse, and in due time things will become clear to all parties involved. You can PM me anytime.
Warm Wishes,
BF98
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What is the biggest regret or source of resentment because of being a Jehovahs Witness?
by stuckinarut2 ini'm sure we could all write long paragraphs about this question, but in a few words, what is your biggest regret, or frustration in life due to being a witness?.
what missed opportunities did it cost you?
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Blackfalcon98
A full scholarship to one of the most prestigious Universities in the United States. The stance on higher education is what started my doubts actually. -
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Escape from Paradise: a new book by Brock Talon
by Brock Talon inafter a one year gestation period, as well as an extended labor, i am finally happy to announce the birth of my latest book: escape from paradise.. cigars all around!
like any new parent, i need to get some much needed sleep now.
zzzzzzzz.
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Blackfalcon98
Hi BROCK! I've got Journey to God's House in my hand right now! I really liked the story of Big Tex, etc! Thanks for sharing your experiences! Look forward to your new book too!
BF98
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Counsellor needed please!
by stuckinarut2 inhi all.. i have noticed that many of our forum members have sought professional help from counsellors who deal with ones like us who have broken free from high control groups or "cults".. my self esteem has been rocked by recent events in the cong, and while i know ttatt it still has taken my joy in life away quite a bit.. as you all know, mentally i broke free from the org several years ago, but now that i am trying to start making the physical break, i feel really unsettled and nervous.. i wonder if a good counsellor could assist in helping me clarify and sort my feelings and emotions , and provide help to take practical steps to cut all ties with the org?.
if anyone can provide ideas of good counsellors, it would be appreciated.. thanks everyone!.
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Blackfalcon98
Yes, I personally use a regular personal counselor, its good to be able to talk to someone about my struggles....and she really helps me work out an exit strategy. Don't shrug off regular counselors......you may find that they learn much about how to handle other ex-cult members as well, and will put forth a significant effort to help you, being that you represent an opportunity for their professional growth. Congrats again!
BF98
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Blackfalcon98
Very nice representation! Its ironic in that Japan is the WT's poster-child for pioneering....yet they lead the whole world, it seems, in negative growth!
BF98
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Becoming officially inactive
by All for show ini don't want to turn in my token time anymore.
it's only a few hours counting what we do with the kids.
i don't want it counted for their skewed statistics- or to just for the sake of doing it.
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Blackfalcon98
I would continue to turn in the token time until the move. After the move, the new elders will not have any suspicion and wont be looking for you to make a shepherding call on the newly moved in inactive couple. IMHO this will make the fade easier in a year.
Best wishes,
BF98