I like how you broke it down, especialy the A-B comparison with your bible...Very telling...very telling!
The key doctrine that holds the whole mess together is loyalty to the Faithful and Discreet Slave.
Yes, that is their primary Guilt and Fear tactic they use on the congregation. The Unfaithful and Indiscreet Slave are also more disciples of Paul than they are followers of Christ. Paul was big on teaching the congregation to surrender their personal freedoms (especialy the women) rather than lifting them up and setting them free...as Jesus said the Truth should.