If 'a' then what is good is independant of God
and He has no choice but to accept it as good.
I think you exactly nailed it with this sentance.
1John 4: 8, "...God is love." It doesn't say God is 'loving' it says He IS love...Why? Hebrews 6:18 says it is also "...impossible for God to lie."...Why?? If it didn't matter, if it made no differance, why embrace love to the extent that you become it? Why make/insist that love be the law and order of things for his intelligent creatures? It must be because there is a law of existance that even God must submit to, otherwise lawless hedonisim would be the natural order of things. Love is self sacrificing and contributes to the advancement of the whole. Pride (which I believe is the opposite of love) is selfish and works against the advancement of the whole. Love is a law in itself where as Pride is lawless. Lawlessness to any degree is unacceptable. I believe Revelation 22: 15 proves this, in that liers are exluded the same as murderers from the Kingdom. When some cells of our body become lawless we do everything we can to correct it, even cutting parts of our body off to save it from the self-destuctive lawless cells. We don't want or allow any of them to exist within us. We call the lawless cells...Cancer.
To recognise this however is to accept that we do not need God to determine for us what is good and what is bad.
I disagree. We're creations of God...smaller versions of Himself. To the extent we understand good and bad is because He put a level of understanding of them within us. He is the Master we are the students. The reason He has allowed humanity to act on its own, to allow everyone to become a law unto themselves, was to show the natural decay that takes place when self-sacrificing love is not the standard. I believe it is also has physical manifistation, otherwise, again...why would God be love? Also, He told Adam and Eve they would die if they chose to deviate from His law. He did not say I will execute you, He said 'you will die.' I believe it is a case of natural 'cause and effect.' God is love and interestingly He is also the "King of Eternity," 1Timothy 1: 17 and Revelation 15: 3.