I've found it discouraging to be at the last several funerals in our area. The talks have mentioned very little about the person who has died..........and the speaker goes on and on about "what he/she would have wanted you to hear right now"
The outline covers so much material.........144,000, great crowd, sign of the end,.......etc. etc. that no one who wasn't a witness would make any sense of it.........
There's been some real fiascos with disfellowshipped relatives........no one allowed to attend any function after the funeral, etc.
It's left a bad impression within the community.........it all seems very un-christian to me.