Posts by amac

  • blondie
    53

    Celebrating Birthdays--Disfellowshipping Offense--Where stated in WT pubs?

    by blondie in
    1. watchtower
    2. bible

    blondis is asking for help.

    where does it state that if a jw celebrates a brithday that it is a disfellowshipping offense.

    i have searched and searched.

    1. chappy
    2. blondie
    3. Kenneson
  • amac
    amac

    I recently let our children go to a b-day party and one JW found out. The news spread like wildfire and that JW actually said that they would no longer associate with us (although they have since then.) We got lots of tearful phone calls (everyone knows we are inactive but this was sort of icing on the cake.) Not long afterwards we had an elder's visit. That was one of the first questions they asked...but oddly enough they moved onto other things and never really reprimanded us for the b-day. I think a lot of it will depend on how hardline your local elders are.

    I never realized that about the Job account. Is there anything that definitely indicates it is referring to b-days?

  • minimus
    51

    Local Elder Comes By My Work & He Left Looking Discouraged!

    by minimus in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    an elder that lives in the same area as my work came by and noticed i was waiting on customers.

    he left and waited for them to leave.

    then he came back in.

    1. minimus
    2. johnny cip
    3. SAHS
  • amac
    amac
    the best part is while you have then in your house and excuse your self for a few minutes. the call to 911 is free.

    Except that 911 is for life threatening emergencies, unfortunately it gets flooded with calls that are not emergencies all the time...better to call the police station directly...

  • bsylva
    45

    Please help! ( I have a question?)

    by bsylva in
    1. social
    2. relationships

    my question is this,.

    and she loves me as well.

    however i was baptised as a catholic as a child.

    1. jaredg
    2. prgirl79
    3. Bubbamar
  • amac
    amac

    You would be surprised how many people come to this board in your situation. I think you will find that the most general response will be "RUN WHILE YOU CAN!!!!"

    Seriously though, the Jehovah's Witnesses religion teaches that it is wrong to marry outside of the faith. The religion WILL be a division in your marriage unless your mate is determined to go against what she has been taught and put you and her marriage first.

  • desib77
    43

    Ghosts and Haunted Places

    by desib77 in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    i'm really curious about this subject.

    i guess i still tend to think anything strange that happens is demons.

    now that i'm trying to be open about other possibilities i'm curious.. have you had any experiences with ghosts or haunted places?

    1. funkyderek
    2. SixofNine
    3. Sirona
  • amac
    amac

    I just read Demon-Haunted World by Carl Sagan. He's a bit of a killjoy, but an interesting read nonetheless...if you're looking for both sides of the argument.

  • jaredg
    80

    Opinions on a letter i am sending my family

    by jaredg in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    hey guys.

    both my mom, dad and sister have asked me to write them with my reasons and concerns for leaving the wts.

    this is what i wrote them.

    1. ohiocowboy
    2. jaredg
    3. johnny cip
  • amac
    amac

    Jared -

    This is the first post of yours that I have read. Let me start by saying welcome and let me finish by saying WHAT A GREAT LETTER! And great responses from your father. It sounds like they truly do love you and want to do whatever they can to keep you part of their life. It seems like they are so close to seeing "the truth"...it really offers hope to people like me that maybe love CAN shine through the WTS bull$h%t teachings.

    I look forward to reading more and using your letter for myself.