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  Has Anyone Ever Had This Problem?

  by codeblue in

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  ....ok...i have been trying to clean my house for the last 4 hours.......i just can't seem to stay away from this darn website....i am afraid my jwd addiction is keeping me from cleaning my house today..... can somebody please help me??????????.

  codeblue

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  Uh oh,

  Here come the camera's.....watch out
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  To dear Lady Lee

  by Puternut in

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  lady lee,.

  i personally wanted to thank you for these posts; "mothers who have lost a child" and "those without mothers".

  i know you do counseling, and you have helped many.

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  Lady Lee,

  I personally wanted to thank you for these posts; "Mothers who have lost a child" and "Those without mothers"

  I know you do counseling, and you have helped many. These posts are excellent, and you know what good it does people to talk about their past and get things on paper, so to speak. So, I am grateful that you took the time to help others in this way. You are a remarkable person. You know the reason why many are here posting, and you try to help where you can.

  To allow and help others to get their deepest emotions out and talk about things from their past experiences, is something we all need to do. And you have a great way of slipping in a few 'thought provoking threads' on the board. I wanted to acknowledge the value you have here as a member. I deeply appreciate the things you do for others. I know a 'little' about your history, and you see the hurt that others are experiencing. You are the best.

  Thank you so much.

  Puternut
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  Hola, amigas y amigos! Es Cinco de Mayo!

  by Nathan Natas in

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  that's about everything from my hs spanish class.... this margarita's for you!

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  Huevos Rancheros to you too
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  REPOST: For those without mothers

  by Lady Lee in

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  mothers day can bring up many issues for some of us.

  for some their mothers have passed away and the opportunity to say i love you in person is forever lost.

  for others our mothers are lost to the borg.

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  Mom,

  I trully wish you would be able to read this letter. Though I know you never will, nor trully care. I was your youngest son. You have raised me, and I don't know if I am thankful for that.

  I am a parent also, and I know for a fact that it's not hard to show your children love. Reading to them, playing with them, supporting them when they are down, being there for them. I know that I was not the easiest child, but I now realize that all I wanted, is for you to tell me you loved me. You never did, until I had my first child. I promised myself I would never repeat what you allowed Dad to do me. I would be a chainbraker! You stood there many times allowing the abuse to go on. And you know it was often for no reason at all. You did nothing to help an innocent child, shame on you. I was crying for help, but you weren't there......

  I thought you would be proud of me when I became a witness. But even then you showed no interest in me as a person or my new family. I don't know what I have done to you as a person. But your attitude has shown to me, that perhaps you wished I was never born.

  Now that I am out of the borg, you told my brother (not me), that you wanted nothing to do with me anymore. So you didn't have the courage to tell me about this. Not that it matters anymore, because you never really cared anyway. You have scolded me verbally, and accused me of things that were mean and degrading.

  I want you to know that till today I am still affected by those words. They are forever stuck in my head, and I can't seem to be able to get them out of my mind.

  Now you are an old woman in a care facility. And you have no friends, that really care about you. Did it ever occur to you as to why that might be? Could it be that not everyone else is wrong and you're not always right?

  I am saddened that you never experienced me as a person. I am a good guy, but that is something you will never see. Now you are a sad woman in a room all alone. And you feel no one loves you. You have turned your back on your son, because you allow yourself to be influenced so easily by others.

  I want you to know one thing; You never held me, you never gave me praise. As much hurt as you have given me, and as little contact as you had with me for the last 48 years, when I really needed you as a mother, I can't help but still love you.

  Your disappointed Son,

  Ary
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  Has Anyone Ever Had This Problem?

  by codeblue in

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  ....ok...i have been trying to clean my house for the last 4 hours.......i just can't seem to stay away from this darn website....i am afraid my jwd addiction is keeping me from cleaning my house today..... can somebody please help me??????????.

  codeblue

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  Codeblue,

  You ADDICT you. You need some serious counseling. I suggest you come here and tell us all about it.
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  In Case you care..... apostate words for Mum

  by ApagaLaLuz in

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  my parents kicked me out of their home 3 years ago when i started to question things.

  i was engaged to a ministerial servant and a regular pioneer shortly before everything happened.

  although i haven't been da'd or df'd i have been labeled an "apostate.

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  Chevys,

  Good letter. Full of hearfelt words that mean a lot to her. There is one line that caught my attention:

  Please understand that Im not hurting or in pain anymore

  That is important for other family members to know. Most think that we're miserable and dejected. Far from the truth. Excellent post Chevys.

  Puternut.
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  REPOST: For mothers who have lost a child

  by Lady Lee in

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  one who are mother's but never had the chance to hold their child are those who have lost a child.

  some because they chose to give their child up for adoption.

  others because of miscarriage or stillbirth.

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  Good post Lady Lee,

  Happy upcoming mothersday to all mothers.

  Puternut

  (fathers miss their unborn child too)
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  Propaganda from Jehovah

  by darkuncle29 in

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  this is just soooo rich, i think i need a glass of milk.

  or maybe some syrup of ipecac.. http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2000/6/22/article_02.htmthe sly art of propaganda can.

  paralyze thought and prevent clear thinking.

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  Observers of Jehovah's Witnesses have found no evidence that this Christian community has ever been a force disruptive of the good order of any land.

  Is that so? Did the thought of the many child abuses cases against them, slip their notice?

  Puternut
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  What's the point of it all?

  by Puternut in

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  i have been here on the board a while.

  posting away, commenting on other threads.

  i have now been labeled officially an apostate throughout the circuit and district.

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  Sunny,

  Thanks for the comment. I think when we all were at one time in the borg, we 'thought' we had a direction. We could answer almost ALL questions we had about our lives. We had answers on the future, the past, our families, our jobs, etc etc. Now that we are out, we have to start all over again, trying to figure out what the 'real' answers are for ourselves. That's the faze I am in right now. Perhaps I shouldn't worry about it too much, and let time go by and see where it takes me. But I am a structured person, and hate loose ends. Or not having an answer on peoples questions, or my own for that matter. Right now, I don't even know if there IS a god/ess. Or what the future for mankind holds...... ya know??

  Puternut

  (still thinking about my world cruise on my boat)
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  How would you have done it?

  by Ariell in

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  pretend that you're god (yaweh) for a moment.

  it doesn't matter if you believe in him or not.

  you've created the universe.

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  Good question:

  What would you have done differently?

  I would not have stayed in heaven, but lived among mankind.

  What would you have done the moment you realized Satan had turned against you?

  Zap...poof....gone

  How would you test Adam and Eve, or would you have tested them at all?

  No tests, no reason for it.

  Would you have created only two people to populate the earth or more?

  Nope, a whole bunch of nekkid people in the sun.

  Would you give man free will?

  Some, with a few guidelines.

  What would you do if they broke these laws?

  Fair warnings first, repeat offfenders....... zap....poof...gone