Take a helium balloon and sing: "Let's walk how we walk, let's talk how we talk"
Puternut
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Puternut
What meeting? AA meeting?
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Its about the enablers, not the abuse It's about the coverups not the crime
by avishai inthis was a phrase spoken by a woman on abc news tonight, re: the catholic sex abuse scandal.
i love this phrase, especially when applied to the jw's and their spokesmen's regular denials that they had anything to do with the abuse.
no, they did'nt order their members to molest children.
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Puternut
It's about the enablers, not the abuse It's about the coverups not the crime
This is a true statement. Once there has been some handslapping these men are re appointed and put right back in their position, to be allowed to do it again and again.
Then it's being covered up by the CO's, and people are being threatened, if the speak about it. This threat alone, is abuse in itself to the inth degree, because it makes all the ones who have knowledge of this, guilty before a court of law. The elders have an 'ecclesiastical privelege' and abusing this privelege.
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Perverted Elders
by new light inafter reading puternut's post "interesting visit" i wonder if his cong.
is an isolated incident or not.
i personally dont know of any pedophile elders, but i'm sure there are some in my area.
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Puternut
New light,
No, my former congregation is not an isolated incident. Mind you, I have been an elder for 18 years and a PO 2 years out of that. I have known people from many circuits and districts and other congregations, due to the fact that I gave many talks everywhere. These reports are from all over the circuit and neighboring congregations. I also know now quite a few people that are ex Jw's and coming to me. I don't seek them out, out of respect for their stand. But I am known throughout this area, and many don't understand why I am out. Now they want answers.
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Interesting visit
by Puternut ini had a very interesting phone call today.
a sister (fader) called me, and told me how she and her husband (ex elder) have been thinking about me, and talking late into the night about what they could do for me.
they knew i was disfellowshipped now, and remembered the kindnesses i extended to them for many years while i was an elder.
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Puternut
I know these elders personally. They are still serving this morning conducting the WT study, and giving the public talk. I have served 'shoulder to shoulder' with these men. And the ex-elder I met with is out today (not df'd) because he was removed for trying to do in his heart was right. He feels helpless, and doesn't know what to do about it.
I have nothing to loose I am out, and though this country has a statue of limitations, I don't think there is a statue of limitations with the Creator. More so with the CO's and DO's who have made themselves bloodguilty also, by telling members not to talk about it. I have names, and addresses of these molesters. And I need to know where I can go with this information to expose these hypocrites. Perhaps I need to contact the people at silentlambs for some direction. My daughters are still in, and I want them out. But I need to move cautiously, so as to be most effective with this process.
The sister I met with was told by one elder that see needed a real man to show her how to grow up. She was 13 at the time.
Any leads anyone could give me would be highly valued. PM me if you wish to remain anonymous.
Puternut
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Interesting visit
by Puternut ini had a very interesting phone call today.
a sister (fader) called me, and told me how she and her husband (ex elder) have been thinking about me, and talking late into the night about what they could do for me.
they knew i was disfellowshipped now, and remembered the kindnesses i extended to them for many years while i was an elder.
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Puternut
I had a very interesting phone call today. A sister (fader) called me, and told me how she and her husband (ex elder) have been thinking about me, and talking late into the night about what they could do for me. They knew I was disfellowshipped now, and remembered the kindnesses I extended to them for many years while I was an elder. They knew the difficult time I was experiencing. They were inactive and had been stumbled many times and betrayed, and had felt bitter for many many years, they knew that I was not judging them, and I treated them with dignity. So they decided to call me and told me they were thinking about me, can we get together for a drink? My heart was touched by this call and so we met for 3 hours and talked.
They had been out for a long time and were able to observe the borg from a birds eye view. What I heard floored me. Since we live in the same area, we were able to talk about people we knew. She told me about elders in the congregation that are still in good standing, yet had done things that are apalling. One is still a watchtower conductor, and had molested his own daughter for several years. The son is not active anymore due to the fact that he knew about it, but was told to keep quiet. The mother of that family, now a basket case with many illnesses, is still not able to talk about it. The circuit overseer told everyone in the congregation, it happened a long time ago and if you talk about it, you will suffer the consequences.
Another elder, attempted to violate the sister that called me today. Yet another elder impregnated his own daughter and had his wife raise her, and made excuses about adoptions. He also had many hot tub parties for young teenagers, and my daughters are that age. Another elder physically abused both his daughters so bad that they are not able to see him anymore and are now in therapy. And some of these men are still serving as elders even as I write this. And it's all being hushed.........and not talked about
I knew nothing of this while in the borg, but always wondered why some of the elders children weren't doing so well. Tonight I found out the hard way.......I am sick to my stomach
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What's your status....relationship wise?
by Maverick inone of the down sides of the web is not knowing the various posters status; married, involved, looking, and lost...suspect a lot of those here!
my status is complicated...mostly by me!
i have a couple of admirers that would like to lock me down but i keep dancing around the whole issue.
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Puternut
Where, what, who? Am I missing something?
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Puternut is a Karaoke fiend
by simplesally inyes he is............he and his friend blueeyes are in a karaoke bar singing 'margaritaville" and having shots of petron............that's tequila for all you novices.
i will tell you they have to use training wheels.
they are having a good time....... .
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Puternut
come on with us maybesbabies, you'll have a great time
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What's your status....relationship wise?
by Maverick inone of the down sides of the web is not knowing the various posters status; married, involved, looking, and lost...suspect a lot of those here!
my status is complicated...mostly by me!
i have a couple of admirers that would like to lock me down but i keep dancing around the whole issue.
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Puternut
Real men have double absorbant paper towels than can handle the messiest jobs
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What's your status....relationship wise?
by Maverick inone of the down sides of the web is not knowing the various posters status; married, involved, looking, and lost...suspect a lot of those here!
my status is complicated...mostly by me!
i have a couple of admirers that would like to lock me down but i keep dancing around the whole issue.
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Puternut
**** nut thinks, a real woman would not be there in the first place, let dust this one off and see how she cleans up...........