Worldly Andre ( I love that moniker )
Rabbit, Thats what I never got when I was a kid growing up a JW, the cross is to remind us that Jesus died for our sins, why would that offend anyone?
Even recently, I've found myself criticizing, especially the Catholic cross (with Jebus on it) to my wife (never-a-dub). But, after seeing 'Nikki' react like that...I realized I still have a ways to go to rid myself of JW thinking.
I think the WT cult's idea was to put a little more division between 'us' ...and the world. And it's an effective one...I remember so many talks where the elder would say, "If your loved one was murdered, would you wear a symbol of the weapon used to kill them ? " It's something disgusting you can picture in your mind, then look down your 'holier than thou' nose at those "evil worldly people."
It's one of those cult lessons hard to let go of...I consider myself open-minded, but, obviously not enough to 'allow' someone to use their own choice of an icon, to remember and honor something important to them.
Still learning, I am... Jedi Rabbit