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  jws are craziest

  by cuddlepie in

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  got this from wwww.watchtower-observer.org so true is freaky.

  however, in his adams versus god, melbourne broadcaster phillip adams said in 1985 that, according to us studies, "jehovah's witnesses are more likely to be admitted to psychiatric hospitals than the general population".

  "according to an article in the british journal of psychiatry," he said, "they are three times more likely to be diagnosed as suffering from schizophrenia and four times more likely to be paranoid schizophrenics.

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  Paranoia will destroy ya ~ it has worked through the WTS's indoctrination of beliefs with huge numbers of folks unfortunately.

  To all who have freed themselves of the influence and are still with us, I wish you peaceful days.
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  What Are You READING?

  by patio34 in

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  okay, it seems it's high time we had another thread like this!.

  for serious reading, i have exceptions to the rulers by amy goodman (goes great with fahrenheit 911!

  )the curse of adam by bryan skyles (i think) (it predicts the extinction of males.

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  Some "light" reading to make you heavy!

  I bought myself a book of "1001 Cookie Recipes" with 1001 full color photographs - 1 of each type of cookie.

  As I leafed through it, I realized I've made like three types of cookies in my whole life: peanut butter, choc. chip, and oatmeal.

  This book has every type of cookie pictured that I have ever seen at every holiday time in bakeries, at work, stores - that I would never buy thinking that it was a "bad" cookie! My son's looking forward to me making a new cookie each week until the day I die.
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  Questions about Jehovahs Witness???

  by JDWEEE in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  charles taze russell, founded the jw in the 1860's.

  which is based on his own interpretations of the bible.

  he had no theology education, and did not know the greek, and hebrew language.. question: how can an average man, with "no" education, interpret the bible correctly?.

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  JDWEE:

  Asked all those same questions myself during my whole life growing up as a JW -

  please steer clear - it's all bogus!
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  Can anyone help me? Loved one being torn away

  by heart broken in

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  2. friends

  i am not going to divulge any names or contact details as i do not what this being taken much further.. i will cut to the chase, i have fallen in love with a jehova's witness.

  i am not a jehova's witness... can you see where this is going?

  i have been told that her being in love with me is strictly against jw "policy"... now, i have been scowering the net for days now, becomming increasingly insomniate and i have to admit, i have found nothing to support this warning.

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  Yes, it's "strictly against JW policy" as you have heard. It's a long, pot hole filled road that you will be traveling down if you decide to stay in this relationship. People here speak from years of experience in seeing these relationships begin, struggle, destroy lives, and end - many have been in one. I'm thinking more and more lately that it really is cruel for a JW to allow these relationships to develop unless they are ready, willing, and able to make a complete split from the fanatacism of the cult.

  All the best to you in investigating and decision making,

  4JWY
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  JWs--cult or am i just bitter?

  by sinamongurl in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  after reading many experiences and comments on the board, i have begun to have questions.

  questions that i really didnt know i until i read them.

  as a recently df'd person, i am still struggling with whether jws are really a cult or is it just that im bitter for being torn away from the only thing that i knew, where i had friends that i thought loved me.

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  sinamongurl ~

  It is a process and a new journey that you have begun. All kinds of thoughts and feelings will be racing through your mind for awhile - no one should ever say how you should or shouldn't feel - you are you - and the way you feel IS you and it's okay, bitter, angry, sad, whatever. We've all shared those feelings on discovering what we truly have been a part of, many for our entire lives. Allow yourself to experience the emotions and continue to look into things as you are. Read and read some more - my husband and I haven't stopped talking for over a year now - throwing all the issues around and back and forth. We have been very happy to have the help of all those on this board too. The wide range of personalities, experiences, knowledge and thoughts shared has been wonderful.

  Life is beautiful and now you have the opportunity to truly live it!

  4JWY
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  Will I die at Armageddon?

  by sinamongurl in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  the anwser is: know one really knows but jehovah.. i have been df'd for 3 years now.

  i still struggle with: "should i go back cuz i dont want to die" .

  but then its not really for the "right" reason.

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  Welcome to the forum !

  JW's are a cult and one of the signs of a cult is that it uses fear, guilt, and shame to keep it's members in bondage. You could greatly benefit from reading about the tactics cults use.

  The book by Steven Hassan - "Combatting Cult Mind Control" was very helpful to my family and I as we left JW's after more than 40 years. Also, "Captive Hearts, Captive Minds, Freedom & Recovery from Cults and Abusive Relationships", by Madeleine Tobias was excellent.

  My JW dad lived in such fear of the "end times" - Armageddon - that he chose not to stick around to see what the outcome would be. When an organization has so deeply instilled this fear into it's members, it can be deadly and some do need to seek professional help to deal with this.

  Wishing you peace,

  4JWY
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  Sad News...

  by Sentinel in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my mom had her valve replacement and triple by-pass surgery today.

  the operation lasted five hours, and they had just gotten her to her room at 8:00pm when she went into cardiac arrest.

  the doctor tried everything, even opening up her chest and massaging her heart.

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  Dear Karen,

  So, so sorry for your sadness and loss of mom. They are truly one of a kind in every child's life - hold on to your memories and you will always feel she is by your side.

  4JWY
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  Any one out there been diagnosed with bipolar?

  by Lehaa in

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  2. medical

  i've just started being treated for bipolar disorder, used to be called manic depression.

  medication i'm now (lexapro) on seems to be working really well.

  i do worry about how my being bipolar will effect my kids.

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  Hello lehaa-

  Although it is easier said than done, I'm sure you know already that stress is a big bad guy with bipolar. By learning how to keep stress to a minimum or at least controlled, you will fare much better. When you have just begun medication, please be aware of your feelings and the side effects as there are some dangers with it's use until your body adjusts to it - particularly if you become highly agitated - keep in close contact with your Dr. on the dosage.

  Several members of my family live with this condition and we benefitted greatly by attending a 12 week free educational course for family members of those with brain disorders through the NAMI organization (National Alliance for the Mentally Ill) - They have chapters all throughout the U.S. If you do a search on NAMI - you will be pleased to locate so much info on bipolar disorder and how you can live successfully with it. Much emphasis is placed on both you and your family becoming educated on the disorder and their materials were a lifesaver to us.

  Wishing you the best ~

  4JWY

  (now, I see you are not in the states - you can still view all of NAMI on-line tho)
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  Another Freaky Pic

  by ColdRedRain in

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  whadda think?.

  http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/file/d45e7361-9eb4-47c9-b668-228b08bdf64c.ashx

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  Whadda bout? Somethin's missing ....?
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  A visit with my mom.....suggestions?

  by desib77 in

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  2. friends

  my hubby and i had my mom over last sat.

  and overall she was pretty good with the exception of the magazines she left at the very end.. now she has called and asked if we can get together, just us, for cokes on friday while i'm in town.

  now, i know that she is going to witness to me and ask me if i love jehovah and tell me that if i do i should obey his commands.......and so on....and i will probably leave her feeling worthless.. i don't want to miss out on spending time with her because i really love my mother....but on the other hand i don't want to leave her depressed.... any suggestions?

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  Blondie ~

  Thank you so much I figured you would be able to help here - you rule!

  Warm regards,

  4JWY