Nat,
The sister of my soon to be ex is about 3 months pregnant. The other day she had a ultrasound which revealed that the baby wasn't developing properly and further tests revealed that the baby has severe downs syndrome. In addition, the baby has a cleft pallete, improperly formed heart and problems with the lungs. The docotrs are not predicting good chances for the baby to be born but of course all the JW family are praying that the baby won't die.
Operations have already been booked for the heart and the cleft pallete for some months after the baby is born. This poor little girl has an atrocious start to life and it is going to be an enormous struggle every day for her predicted short life.
The mother has been trying to conceive for the last 8 years and had given up hope of ever having a child and had resigned herself and accepted her infertility. This baby was an accident so if things do not work out they way they want then she may never have another child.
But sitting outside the group now i can't help but wonder whos' interests they are really serving by allowing this baby to be born. Does perhaps never having the opportunity for having another child make it ok to put this child through a lifetime of suffering? Of course from a JW point of view there is no question but to accept fate and bring such a child in to the world. As a JW we were trained to ignore logic and apply hard and fast rules to every single situation in our lives regardless of the cost or consequences.
Sometimes i think it is more important to stand back and see the bigger picture. Sometimes the needs of the one outweigh the needs of the many.
Beaker