Hi Focaridu! I'm sorry that someone is trying to "Out" you. If you find out for sure who it is that did it, you can PM one of the Mods with the information, and they will figure out the best way to handle things. Be careful though, and be absolutely sure that you know who the person is, as you do not want to make a false accusation by accident.
I'm sorry you are going through this. Be careful in the future what you say on the internet, there are a lot of people who are not who or what they say they are. It's unfortunate, but it is a fact.
Take care!!!