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  Do Ladies Prefer Gentlemen?

  by compound complex in

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  dear lady friends,.

  i'm massively naif when it comes to the ways of the world.

  and 40 years a wta has not given me a great sense of what's real: crazy rules and regs on "appropriate behavior.".

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  Yes this one does
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  The Fortune Cookie Thread. Share yours! (Unabashed Friday Fluff) :- )

  by Open mind in

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  i'm a fortune cookie atheist.

  i enjoy reading them, but do not feel they have any kind of "power" or are somehow "guided" to reach their final recipient.

  i do acknowledge the possibility that if they happen to contain good advice, then perhaps that may have a positive effect.

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  "better to keep your mouth shut and have people think you're stupid than to open it and prove it"

  I have about 4 or 5 of those from different chinese food places,

  The really cool thing about it..... My brother who passed away about 20 years ago used to tell me that ALL the time SO now when I get that in a cookie I smile because of the connection.

  Then when I was opening online cookies.... yep that saying came up as one of them.... COOL I say, and well the message probably does apply also
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  Christmas Card exchange?

  by bem in

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  has someone started a christmas card exchange list yet for this year?

  we did this in the past and it was such fun to get all the great cards.. .

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  Here’s the list so far if I have missed anyones name or if you need a copy let me know, I have them saved at a couple places too if anyone runs into a problem let me know I would be happy to send them to you:
  
  Blondie
  Reneeisorym
  Alamb
  Jim_tex
  John Doe
  Free2think
  PEC
  Horrible Life
  Helncon
  zamora251978
  The silence
  Awake and Watching
  Gretchen956
  Bumblebee
  AK Jeff
  BEM
  Crazyblondeb
  Purza
  Lola
  Dazedandconfused
  Noni1974
  Namaste
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  Christmas Card exchange?

  by bem in

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  has someone started a christmas card exchange list yet for this year?

  we did this in the past and it was such fun to get all the great cards.. .

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  Hi crazyblond you are now on the list and I have sent you a PM
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  Quote of the Day

  by purplesofa in

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  " it is never too late to be what you might have been".

  i read this today and thought of you.

  purps.

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  " The one serious conviction that a man should have is that nothing is to be taken too seriously." - Nicholas Butler
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  I got shunned yesterday

  by loosie in

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  man i love the feeling of power i get when people run away w/o me doing anything but beiing me.. but now that i think about it.

  it's not my power but the power that fear has over them.

  dang it i liked my first feeling better.. anywho.. i was in walmart yesterday and i was walking down the main aisle when the p.o.

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  Walmart does seem to be the meeting place, my most recent crash came about there, a sis' decided to take it upon herself and tell me I was worrying another sis' to death I needed to get in touch with her ASAP, I was taken aback for one that she spoke, so I was too stunned to really respond correctly, Aftewards it "dawned" * on me everything about the face-to-face was her way of trying to intimidate me. She looked me in the eye walked past me then came back to tell me what I must do! NOW I am angry over it because of the" I shoulda saids"...... coming to mind right and left!! esepecially over something that is not her buisness.

  Everything about this woman was mean* or trying to be, from her body language to her, facial expression, tone of voice. this woman owns one of those loan places where they loan you money and the payback is with about 30% interest, I never used her in a buisness sense because I think they are rip offs (But then if others wanna borrow from them so be it).....anyway I can just imagine how she treats customers who owe money.

  Dorothy== who is kicking herself for being caught off guard and not having a reply ready
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  Christmas Card exchange?

  by bem in

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  has someone started a christmas card exchange list yet for this year?

  we did this in the past and it was such fun to get all the great cards.. .

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  BTTT
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  Christmas Card exchange?

  by bem in

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  has someone started a christmas card exchange list yet for this year?

  we did this in the past and it was such fun to get all the great cards.. .

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  Dazedandconfused namaste noni1974 Lola Purza....... Are addresses that are now added to the list of mailing addresses if I haven't updated you let me know and I will get the new adresses to you, Dorothy
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  Christmas Card exchange?

  by bem in

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  has someone started a christmas card exchange list yet for this year?

  we did this in the past and it was such fun to get all the great cards.. .

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  Awww Purps I don't know what happened, but I totally understand anytime I have a "feeling" or hesitation I follow it.

  Honesty is now on for cards
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  Christmas Card exchange?

  by bem in

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  has someone started a christmas card exchange list yet for this year?

  we did this in the past and it was such fun to get all the great cards.. .

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  BTTT