I don't quite remember exactly how the conversation went, but years ago when i was a young little rebellious JW..( i think around 9 or 10) i was upset because my mother wouldn't let me go by fireworks for July 4th. And she went on and on about fireworks are wrong and the bible says we shouldn't celebrate July 4th. Well to show her how much I pay attention at all the numerous bible studies/meetings i replied something to the terms of "you're lying because the bible doesn't say anything about not celebrating July 4th or popping firecrackers because they weren't even invented then when Moses wrote the bible"....she getting very pissed is all i vaguley remember and my non-JW laughing his ass off the rest of the night because i said it in front of everyone.....needless to say....my brother and i were always allowed to pop fireworks "THE DAY AFTER" the major holiday.....
i hope i don't get my dad in trouble by any lurkers in here but he showed up saturday to partake of all the christmas fixings at my aunts house...even took home a few plates...he even talked to me...because i was surely thinking in my head..if he can come in here to eat this xmas food and talk to everybody else and still play that shunning *hit with me...he's got to be kidding....but it was still awkward...but maybe he's coming around...been hearing about alot of un-JW like things he's been doing lately...next time imma go ahead and let him know i don't appreciate him still playing that shunning game with me...