What I'd like to know is what drives some Christians to be victims? On the proportionally small number of threads where atheists and the religious debate it can seem to be abusive when the paucity of facts supporting faith based worldviews is exposed repeatedly and the only evidence of magic is subjective experiences generated within a believers head. It is very difficult to critique or argue against a personal experience without being personal, the religious indulge in telling imaginary experiences and then expect to be taken seriously.
Some believers also treat this board as somewhat more than a place to discuss and instead , based upon hallucinations, fulfill a divine mandate to preach. You can see it in their posting style where they claim a special privileged communication line with a version of their particular god which endows them with special powers and unique insights which they use to lead the gullible ( this is how cults begin and how real abuse starts .) Even amongst the wiser ex-JW there are those seeking a guru. The religious v atheist debates are dominated by a few and are not representative of all believers.
Where believers have not preached or attempted to pass off useless information as having great meaning they get treated with general respect. Respect begets respect. I , as a fairly vocal atheist, can have plenty of solid uplifting conversations with believers who are willing to explore their belief or another topic without referring everything to woo. I wouldn't enter a church spouting Dawkins but some obnoxious believers enter any place and selectively spout the bible or last nights magic dream.