Well I was on a mission.
When this friend on mine started wondering about my virtual disappearance from meetings. I decided to shed some light on her worn out eyes. I started with simple things that were evidently incongruent. She called me crazy and rebellious but I knew a seed was planted and growing. I simply stated over and over: Why does Jehovah seem to have different standards for his people on different parts of the globe? She knows witnesses from different nationalities. Also I asked: Why the JWS had the most improbable answer when dealing with the key doctrinal issues?
Of course she had to come to the rescue of her faith.
We started debating on a daily basis about the truth.
Then came the scholars and their lengthy discussions over doctrinal points. She didn?t buy it.
One day she said that I couldn?t prove her wrong besides quoting apostates.
I recalled the burden of proof principle? "Well JWS say Jesus didn?t die on a cross? You just convince me he didn?t and I?ll be back in the hall in a flash"
She could only quote the WT and really dubious scholars as support.
She changed the subject for many weeks ?til she had to admit she didn?t have a shred of evidence.
End of the story: She is addicted to this site, reading Mr. Ray Franz avidly and currently (even before me) posting here.
Now a days I know non of the high profile doctrinal debating really did the job. It was by pinpointing the things she already knew that she was tempted to research. Otherwise the issue from the cross had never even scratch the surface.
Recently on a post I was referred back to the "KISS theory" (Keep It Simple Sweetie) for the 607 B.C. date and realized that she was set in motion because of simple inconsistencies she constantly overlooked.
Can we list things that are obviously fishy so we can casually mention them to our relatives and friends still in Org for them to realize and assimilate what they already know and are in denial of? I really mean things that are not enough to get us into trouble but sufficient to spark the wise some research more.
I think a summary of this kind may help some out there who are battling with loved ones and don?t have a clue how to start without getting in trouble. At least it worked with her.
I?ll start myself:
1) Why does watching R rated movies can be enough to get your privileges taken away in the States but is not so strictly enforced elsewhere?
2) Why does one have to blame human imperfection for the mistakes of brothers and praise the Org and jehovah for their good deeds?
(This is my first post. Thanks for the support to all you outthere during these difficult times.)
Atlas