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  Really enjoyed the CONvention....why?

  by punkofnice in

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  i remember when i was a mind cleansed(tm) jw i would listen to the talks when i wasn't napping.. on the long tiring drive home i'd say how i ''enjoyed(tm)'' the sessions and felt ''encouraged(tm)''.. .....and yet i couldn't recall a single ''point(tm)'' made.

  i couldn't remember what it was that actually made me feel good.. on one occasion i asked the family what they found ''encouraging(tm)'' or interesting.. tumble weed.

  no examples.

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  They should have showed Ben-Hur or Spartacus.
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  One Day is as 1000 years to Jehovah

  by confusedandalone in

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  i wake up this mornign to find this on my facebook page... instant deletion.

  if 1000 years is as one day...the following is true....if 1000 years is as one day...the following is true..... .

  someone did the math, of the 1000 years = one day equation.

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  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moore%27s_law

  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/FLOPS
  
  The next world record breaking supercomputer should be named "The Watchtower".
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  Has anyone else ever wondered this ?

  by scary21 in

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  i know the jw's are wrong but if they were right, this is my question...... when the big a comes, there has to be the best person who dies.

  the one who lost out on life by a fraction.

  the very best one who still did not make it.

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  Unless something has changed, the equation when I left in 1999 involved two truths: All non-JWs were as good as dead. Not all JWs were as good as saved. So to answer the OP the first JW to be killed at Armageddon would be some flavor of deceitful, etc, you name it, you know plenty of them, and the last JW to be killed, the one who just didn't have enough merit, would probably be along the lines of, 'yes you're ill and yes you say you do all you can for Jehovah but did you really need to miss that one meeting that one time when you did factually have the medical capability of relocating your body into a vehicle, into the Kingdom Hall, but you did not.' Or, 'you did have the medical capability of intruding yourself into someone else's day based on their conversation you overheard on the subway, that one time, but you did not.'
  
  Those shades of choice are the sword of Damocles hanging every day over JWs who might believe in Armageddon. I personally suspect that the greater number of JWs do not believe in Armageddon but do completely fear the social Armageddon of leaving the cult, and so it is faintly comparable.
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  How can I stop hating the JW religion?

  by marriedtoajw in

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  having this spiritual division between my wife and i over the years has been very draining in many ways.

  so much so that i find myself more and more hating everything having to do with the wtbts especially when i just see watchtower literature.

  i've kind of always felt that way but it's getting worst.

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  Caveat: This may be of zero use but it's my response to the phenomena of hating this cult. I'm 40yo and I've been out since 25, and DID at that time have bile like the OP says. I can only say I'm thankfully fortunate to have landed near opportunities for education, but it did help with the bile. Oh, did I have bile... Anyway:
  
  TWS >depends< on you hating it, the TWS, and by collateral association, occasionally JWs.
  A cathexis is an emotional investment, which is the basis of a love/hate relationship. The very worst thing you can do to any conscious thing, whether it is a person or corporation, is to un-exist them. One Could just get out, stay out, and never look back and forget anyone still behind bars. You can do that and have no love or hate for anything TWS related. Another option is to get out, stay out, and be purposefully mindful of either helping people get out of their chains, or warning people that there are bear traps that will clamp down on their leg once they get dunked, etc, etc. I don't actually have to hate the TWS, which is what it wants. I can treat it as a naturally occurring virus, infestation, malignancy, cancer, pestilence, famine, catastrophy, accident of history. (Tornado or earthquake would be giving them a lot of credit). For all these things you have passionate physicians, humanitarians, emergency medical responders who do not take the impersonal, unconscious enemy personally. Treat the TWS as an unconscious beast that feeds itself on the lives of its adherents, and is an unfortunate accident of history to be contained, like an epidemic, and don't take it personally. I contend or claim that you can still have an altruistic mission in life where you do something for reasons greater than the personal, where you do not take the problem personally. Such as, 'this is not an offense against me, now, where I am in my mental place, but I recognize it is an ongoing offence against others'.
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  Theft of Reminiscing

  by rebel8 in

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  so i'm now at the developmental stage of adulthood when my peers and i are beginning to reminisce about our childhoods.

  if you've ever taken developmental psychology, you know the importance of reminiscing.

  yesterday i went to an event about something retro and participants were really nostalgic and just really enjoying themselves.

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  "I towed the dub party line as I was commanded to do (and subjected to corporal punishment and verbal abuse if I came close to not pretending I loved dubbery). I was rightly terrified to say anything but, "I love being a jw and want to go to Bethel.""
  
  One day I was pioneering in a car group in Halifax PA cong, with another male pioneer in the back seat sitting behind his girlfriend/fiance. His father was a Halifax elder and his father's father was PO in West Virginia. This guy's girlfriend said something mouthy - not the kind of comment that might have defamed him in front of other males, just kind of… mouthy. The next thing I knew he had reached up and was clamping his hand - he worked construction - around her trapezius, she was sort of immobilized, and he was warning something to the effect, 'Don't you ever say that again.' I have no excuse for not reacting. I can say that as a matter of fact, I had never conceived of witnessing wife battery inside a car group, so I do have the defense of not actually believing what I was seeing.
  
  As for childhood memories...
  I'm sure many would object to drawing any parallels between the JW stance on truncating, amputating, nay, castrating an ordinary pre-adolescent suite of experiences and, say, female genital mutilation in the third world. But there you go. I just drew the parallel. There is no getting it back. You cannot hot-swap a new hard drive of memories. You can start building up your own set of experiences as fast as humanly possible, you can try to figure out who you are, what you want from life and how you can participate in the things you crave. Those are your options.
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  New watch for all of us exJWs trying to move on with life

  by confusedandalone in

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  i am definitely not selling this product, but i just saw an advertisement for this and thought it is the perfect watch for the exjw who is trying to really just enjoy life and not try to have every second of everyday plotted out.. https://www.slow-watches.com/.

  for instance my typical monday was:.

  5:30 - 6:00 read text with wife and "meditate" on it.

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  I wonder how many JWs are Doctor Who addicts. And, more importantly, I wonder how many of the JWs that got out owe it in part to Tom Baker, the Doctor from 1974 to 1981?
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  The Fake "Joy" Of Jehovah's Witnesses

  by minimus in

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  do you observe this "joy" when you see witnesses going from house to house, in the kingdom halls, out working, or during theocratic wholesome recreational activities?.

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  In central PA there was a Mount Joy congregation. There was also a blonde girl named Joy who thought I was ok while I was pioneering. Then my best friend at the time would meaningfully inquire if I was going to Mount Joy. I've still never been to Mount Joy, but I'm sure it's a swell place.
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  Protest at district convention in Budapest, Hungary

  by cedars in

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  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ihncqunkq94.

  whatever your thoughts on the shouting, displaying a simple web address is an extremely effective and non-confrontational way of getting the message across - and in this case it looks like hundreds if not thousands of witnesses saw it.. .

  cedars.

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  A JW is walking along and hears a humanitarian message. He stops up his ears and walks into the convention center.
  Another JW is walking along and sees a humanitarian message. He stops up his eyes and walks into a bar.
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  JWs made the news next to dinosaurs

  by rmt1 in

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  2. friends

  http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2013/08/02/seattle-officials-call-for-ban-on-potentially-offensive-language/.

  seattle officials call for ban on 'potentially offensive' language"dinosaurs, for example, conjures the topic of evolution, which could rile fundamentalists and birthdays are not celebrated by jehovahs witnesses.

  halloween, meanwhile, suggests an affiliation to paganism.

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  http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2013/08/02/seattle-officials-call-for-ban-on-potentially-offensive-language/

  Seattle officials call for ban on 'potentially offensive' language

  "Dinosaurs, for example, conjures the topic of evolution, which could rile fundamentalists and birthdays are not celebrated by Jehovah’s Witnesses. Halloween, meanwhile, suggests an affiliation to Paganism."
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  More troubling than any Watchtower scandal...

  by chapstick in

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  2. friends

  while we all spend time attacking the wto, something even worse is hanging over our heads.

  this is scary as hell folks.... http://gulagbound.com/40177/republican-leaders-approve-america-as-a-one-party-state/.

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  Satire